There is so much to share about this weekend’s festivities surrounding the 52nd Annual Grammy Awards. I found out I won both awards while bouncing from press commitment to press commitment on the red carpet. Much like Taylor Swift’s fantasies reveal, it is an impossible dream to accept, therefore being handed two wins at once is even more avant-garde. While I am truly present to the blessing that is this incredible acknowledgment, I miss having been able to publically accept either award.
I didn’t have a speech written that night. I honestly didn’t expect to win. I made-up the other nominees were way more relevant than I. I was perfectly happy just to attend the ceremony with my Dad – an award within itself.
Together he and I spent a few days tooling around LA, back and forth from San Diego a few times, dropping in on various events and charity functions. The highlight for me was watching my dad be a tripod for my friend, Detrick’s handheld camera while shooting a PSA for marriage equality. Having Dad be an activist too was a sign that my work was making a real difference in my family – proof that straight people engaging in this conversation does have an impact.
At the after party, Dad was just as at ease on the dance floor, mouthing the words to Poker Face while bumping and grinding on the dance floor with the likes of love-inspiring Carlos and Patrick.
…All else in between – from performing new duets with Colbie Caillat and Shawn Colvin, to singing harmonies with James Taylor, Elvis Costello, Patty Griffin, Emmylou Harris, and Dave Matthews, to being spritzed by Pink under her graceful Grammy performance – we were in constant communication with creation.
And now on with the Awards...
Best Male Pop Vocal Performance – Make It Mine
I would like to thank Jerry Lindahl, Jon Marro, Noel “Toca” Rivera, Matthew & Terces Engelhart and everyone at Cafe Gratitude for inspiring such a fun song to write and perform.
This song was originally written for a film and was rejected. There was a montage in the film that showed the main character going thru the process of realizing a dream – from the initial idea to it being fully expressed and all the work that goes into it - in under 4 minutes. One of the things I did to research this experience was call the aforementioned people and ask them “What’s the secret to sustaining happiness?” These people constantly inspire me to share myself as they share their lives with me. I felt these were the perfect people to represent in a song about living a tirelessly love-filled life.
I would also like to thank Bill Silva Management & Everyone at Atlantic Records for their patience, guidance, trust, and compassion on this lengthy project. It gives me a tremendous feeling to still be celebrating this song more than 2 years after it was recorded. I share this award in honor of your outreach and commitment to the quality of life, not only for myself, but for the people whose letters I’ve read that mentions “Make It Mine” as a song that wakes them up to their true potential.
And special Thanks to Engineer Dyre Gormsen & Producer Martin Terefe for holding space for me to sing an award winning performance. Score another point for Kensaltown!
Hooray for mi familia and the Hanover County Schools for the training. My win is a result of your talent nurturing and creating the possibility for this to even happen.
…And it goes without saying, This song would be empty without The Grooveline Horns’ insane spit-fire brass arrangement. Thank you Carlos Sosa, Fernie Castillo, and Reggie Watkins for the gift you have of making every song better. Somebody be sure to give Raul a high five for me.
Best Pop Collaboration with Vocals – Lucky
I first and foremost wish to thank my co-conspirator, Colbie Caillat for inspiring the song to begin with. It was her voice that prompted me to pick up the phone and call her, inviting the duet to happen.
I also thank Tim Fagan, the third writer on the track for keeping the story alive and building a bridge for us all to get over!
Thanks to Mikal Blue for producing the second round of Vocals; what became the final version you hear on the recording. I love your vibe mike. I always have.
Many thanks to Darren Doane for keeping the best kept secret in show business at the time - and then being the one to beautifully reveal it to all. You make me laugh. Even now.
And of course big thanks to Atlantic Records & Universal for seeing eye-to-eye on a project by two artists from different families. This could have easily been a Romeo & Juliet tragedy in the beginning. And now thanks to your involvement, Colbie and I get to add Grammy Award Winning before our names.
Thank you to all my fans. This has been an extraordinary ten-year overnight success.
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