What is The One Flaw In Women?
By the time the Lord made woman,
He was into his sixth day of working overtime.
An angel appeared and said,
'Why are you spending so much time on this one?'
And the Lord answered, 'Have you seen my spec sheet on her?
She has to be completely washable, but not plastic,
have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable
and able to run on diet coke and leftovers,
have a lap that can hold four children at one time,
have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart
-and she will do everything with only two hands.'

The angel was astounded at the requirements.
'Only two hands!? No way!
And that's just on the standard model?
That's too much work for one day.
Wait until tomorrow to finish.'

'But I won't, ' the Lord protested.
'I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart.
She already heals herself when she is sick
AND can work 18 hour days.'

The angel moved closer and touched the woman.
'But you have made her so soft, Lord.'

'She is soft,' the Lord agreed,
'but I have also made her tough.
You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish.'

'Will she be able to think?', asked the angel.

The Lord replied,
'Not only will she be able to think,
she will be able to reason and negotiate.'

The angel then noticed something,
and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek.
'Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model.
I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one.'

'That's not a leak,'
the Lord corrected,
'that's a tear!'
'What's the tear for?' the angel asked.

The Lord said, 'The tear is her way of expressing her joy,
her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love,
her loneliness, her grief and her pride.'
The angel was impressed.
'You are a genius, Lord.
You thought of everything!
Woman is truly amazing.'

And she is!
Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy;
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take 'no' for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.

They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give

HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE TINY FLAW IN WOMEN,
IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.

Not my words. But some all women should really think about. Sometimes we let some of the smallest things take us to a place that's truly beneath who we are. It's sometimes much easier to say... i'm bigger than that!

Today I had an opportunity to have a brief conversation with someone who did me a huge favor.  This person disagreed with me. Now when someone disagrees with you, in my opinion, they give you an opportunity. That opportunity is one very few people take. It is a chance to grow. When someone disagrees with you they unconsciously give you a chance to examine your self. Now this is not to say that just because someone disagrees with you they are automatically right. I'm just saying that at least you get a chance to learn more. It's like when you ask someone a question and you already thought the answer was one of two options but then they give you an answer that isn't either one of those you thought. The first thing you do is think and then research to make sure they are right. So today I made the statement that 'people are selfish because they love themselves too much'. This is incorrect. Selfishness I feel is innate. It is something that each of us are born with however once we accept Jesus Christ we learn to love others as he loves us. I mean come on God so loved the world that He gave his ONLY begotten son. Some of ya'll won't give your best friend five dollars so if you look in the mirror and you say I'm a little selfish and I'm okay with that. Then maybe it's time to really examine yourself spiritually. As God did make man in His own image which is one of extreme unselfishness where does that leave room to be a 'little' selfish? God is love.

2 Corinthians 13:5-6

Examine yourselves as to whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Do you not know yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?  unless indeed you are disqualified.  But I trust that you will know that we are not disqualified.   NKJV

It's hard as hell being a woman with strong feelings. Sometimes I think I take things too seriously and to be honest, I know a few people who will agree. Maybe one of you beautiful people can help me out with this one though... I won't start by asking why do people lie but that is a good damn question. Maybe if one of you is bold enough you can delve into that question and give me a response that will make it make sense to me. What I don't understand is why does the fact of there being a lie make you much more critical of the person than what the lie actually is? For example, say you are the type of person who has very good understanding… You understand that when you first meet someone there's a chance that they are at least 'friends' with someone else, and  you just want them to let you know up front so you know what you're getting into. So they say nothing and ya'll hook up and it's all good. Then a few weeks later you find out there's someone else. Now three weeks ago you would have been like well that's cool we're just kicking it right? But after you find out for yourself you're like: "you lying piece of shit"! This isn't my exact reason for asking but if you need an explanation here goes… I have a friend who is on the DL living with a girl and talking marriage and since I'm very open minded I can handle his sexuality but my thing is why lie and pretend to be homophobic? I mean being in the closet is one thing but why treat people who are very much like you the exact way you don't want to be treated? I feel like if you are bold enough to fuck women and be sneaking around with grown ass men then at least be man enough to accept yourself for who you are and stop stunting! And please don't just say people lie because they want to because there has to be a point. If you are in a relationship with a woman and you really want to be with a man why lie to lil mama when you can just as easily be like "It's not you it's me" lol no seriously, why carry the lie places it doesn't have to go? Like to the damn altar! Relationships are easier to get out of than cars so give me a break if you're saying people lie because they want to … Why be bothered with someone you don't want when you don't have to?