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Thursday, December 18, 2008
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Assalamu'alaikum.. it's common among us humans to commit sin and yet some of us are proud to boast on their acts of transgression. as muslims we are not suppose to tell anyone of our own sins nor are we suppose to expose another person's aib (wrongdoings), unless it is for the purpose of preventing an evil act to happen to someone else (e.g such as in the case of a conman or a compulsive liar). this matter should not be confused with exposing the deviation of someone's aqidah, which is a different subject altogether. anyways i hope this article would give us clear understanding on this matter. insha'Allaah may we benefit from it. Keeping Sins a Secret. From among the teachings of Allah's Messenger (salallahu alayhi wa-sallam) is to keep sins a secret matter. If someone commits a sinful act which is against the Commandments of Allah, or is against the moral character, or is such an act that may cause harm to one's honor, then he should keep it a secret and seek forgiveness from Allah in the darkness of night. The Messenger of Allah (salallahu alayhi wa-sallam) said: 'My entire nation is safe, except al-Mujahirin (those who boast of their sins). Among the Mujaharah is that a man commits an (evil) act, and wakes up in the morning while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret, he says: 'O Fulan! Last night I did this and that.' He goes to sleep while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret but he wakes up in the morning and uncovers what Allah has kept a secret!' [Sahih al-Bukhari] Zayd ibn Aslam narrated, 'At the time of the Messenger of Allah (alallahu alayhi wa-sallam), a man admitted that he had committed zina (fornication), so the Messenger of Allah asked for a whip. He was brought a broken whip, so he said: 'Better than this.' Then he was brought a new whip…, he then said: 'Lesser than this.' So, he was brought a whip that was used and had thus become soft, and the Messenger (salallahu alayhi wa-sallam) ordered that he be whipped with it (a hundred times). He then said: 'O People! It is time for you to refrain from transgressing Allah's limits. He who commits some of these filthy acts (such as fornication), let him hide under Allah's cover, for whoever admits what he has committed, we will establish Allah's Book as regards him (by applying the warranted punishment for this sin).' [Musnad Ahmad] Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud (radhiallaahu anhu) related, 'A man came to the Prophet and said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I have mingled with a woman in the far side of al-Medina, and I fulfilled my desire short of actually having sexual intercourse with her. So, here am I, judge me according to what you decide.' Umar Ibn al-Khattab (radhiallaahu anhu) then said: 'Allah had kept your secret, why did not you keep your secret?' [Sharah Muslim] Similarly, if one becomes aware of somebody else's sin, he should keep it a secret. Allah's Messenger (alallahu alayhi wa-sallam) said: 'He, who relieves a hardship of this Dunya (world) for a believer, Allah will relieve (from him) a hardship of the Day of Resurrection; he who makes easy an indebted person, Allah will make it easy for him in the Dunya and the Hereafter; he who covers a Muslim (meaning his mistakes and shortcomings), Allah will cover him in the Dunya and the Hereafter…' [Sahih Muslim]
Abdullah Ibn Umar (radhiallaahu anhu) related, 'The Messenger of Allah (salallahu alaihe wa-sallam) once rose above the podium and then said with a loud voice, 'O those who have embraced Islam only with their tongue, while Iman has not yet entered their hearts, neither harm Muslims, nor mock them, nor try to expose their mistakes, for he who follows (searches for) the errors of his brother, Allah will follow his errors, and he whom Allah follows his errors, He will expose him even if he was in the middle of his home.' [Sahih al-Jamee]
Imam an-Nawawi (rahimahullah) writes, 'This Hadeeth indicates that following and then exposing people's mistakes only occurs by the hypocrites and those whose Iman is so weak, that it did not yet fill their hearts…' Exposing sins lead to humiliation and embarrassment, which ceases the possibility that the sinner might someday regret his mistake, seek forgiveness from Allah and purify his soul from sins because one of the things that prevent one from committing sins is the fear of humiliation. However, if the sinner knows that the people are already aware of his sins, then he does not experience the shame and distraction which he used to feel before and this might encourage him to commit sins openly! Secondly, when sins are repeatedly mentioned in gatherings, etc. the fear of committing sins vanishes from the people's hearts. First the sin will become easy on people's tongue and gradually he, who does not feel any shame in mentioning the sin, will not find it difficult to even commit the sin. This is how, sins spread in the society! So, if someone becomes aware of his brother's sins and realizes that nobody except him has seen him committing the sin, then he should keep the sin a secret. He should not encourage people towards sins by exposing his faults. Allah, the Exalted, has not only condemned committing sins in the Qur'aan but He has also condemned those people who mention sins in public. He said: 'Verily, Those who love (to see) scandal published broadcast among the Believers, will have a grievous Penalty in this life and in the Hereafter: Allah knows and ye know not. ' [An Nur: 19] meaning, those who like to see evil talk about them (the believers) appear. [Tafsir Ibn Kathir] Allah says in Surah an-Nisa (4): 148, 'Allah does not like that evil should be uttered in public except by him who has been wronged.' Ibn Abbas (radhiallaahu anhu) commented on this verse, 'Allah does not like that anyone should invoke Him against anyone else, unless one was wronged. In this case, Allah allows one to invoke Him against whoever wronged him…Yet, it is better for one if he observes patience.'[Tafsir Ibn Kathir]
Today sins have become widespread in the society because we have forgotten the teachings of Allah's Messenger (salallahu alayhi wa-sallam), who discouraged people from revealing one's mistakes and sins as well as others. As a result, people have lost the fear of committing not only minor sins but even major sins - Moreover, we find people proudly attributing sins to themselves!! Today, there are also many novel channels through which sins are propagated in the society; like such book, magazines and television programs that mention the crimes of others, illicit acts, and immorality under the name of creating awareness among the people. These programs which are meant to help the people against the crimes are in reality, helping the crime to spread fast in the society! Crimes, which were previously unknown to people have become common offense! It is therefore necessary for the Muslims to avoid all such avenues which may lead to the destruction of our Muslim Ummah. May Allaah forgive us of our sins. Jazakumullaahu khair.
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Thursday, December 18, 2008
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salam, peace be on to you... lately i've been having a lot of discussion regarding the issue of the people of anti-hadeeth (also known as quraanites or quraaniyun). these people rejected the concept of sunnah/hadeeth in its content and its method of transmission, (among other reasons). and they claim to only holding to the Quraan as the only source of knowledge. i won't go into details and bluntly pointing their deviations on that matter, rather i'd like to share on why we have to hold on to the sunnah/hadeeth of the prophet, and also to point out the importance in following it. also there's benefit in pointing out the errors in the quraanites method of understanding so that we might not fall into this grievous error. may we benefit from it and may we have a better understanding of the status of the sunnah in our deen..
The Status of Sunnah in Islam: A Declaration that it cannot dispense with The Qur'an by Al Allamah Syeikh Muhammad Naseeruddin Al-Albani (rahimahullahu Ta'ala)
The Role of Sunnah Towards The Qur'an
You all know that Allah, The Blessed and Mighty, chose Muhammad (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) as His Prophet and picked him to deliver the final message. The Qur'an was revealed to him and commanded him to obey all what He had ordered him to do, that is, to expound His message to the people. Allah says,
We have revealed to you the Reminder (The Qur'an) to expound to people what was revealed to them (An Nahl:44).
I think that the declaration mentioned in the verse contains two orders:
1. Declaration of the word and its arrangement. It is the communication of the Qur'an and its non-concealment, and its pursuit to Mankind just as Allah, The Blessed Almighty, has revealed to the heart of the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) which is the intent of His saying;
O Messenger proclaim what is revealed to you from your Lord (Al Maidah:67).
Aishah (radhiallaahu anha) is reported to have said 'Whosoever says that Muhammad (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) concealed something which he was commanded to communicate, it is a great calumny (falsification) against Allah.' Then she read the abovementioned verse. (Bukhari and Muslim have stated it.)
And according to the narration of Muslim: 'If the Messenger of Allah (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) had concealed something which he was commanded to communicate, he would have concealed the saying of The Almighty:
Behold thou didst say to one who had received the grace of Allah and thy favour: Keep your wife to yourself and fear Allah. But thou didst hide in thy heart that which Allah was about to make manifest; you did fear the people, whereas Allah had a better right that you should fear Him (Al Ahzab:37).
2. The explanation of the meaning of the word or sentence or verse for which man needs an explanation, most of which bear reference to 'Mujmal' (comprehensive) verses or 'Amah' (general) verses or 'Mutlaq' (unbounded) verses.
Then comes the Sunnah and clarifies the sentences and specifies the verses called 'Amah' and defines what is 'mutlaq' that is, in reference to the saying (Qaul) of The Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam), his deed (Fi'l) and the act he confirmed (Iqrar).
The necessity of Sunnah to understand The Qur'an and Parables on that
Allah says: The male thief and female thief cut off their hands (Al Maidah:38) is a fitting example of that. The thief described in this verse is general likewise the hand.
The oral tradition (hadeeth) explains the first of them and restricts it by 'as-sareq' (the thief) who steals something worth a fourth of a Dinar (gold currency) according to the saying of the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) There is no cutting - of the hand - unless the thing stolen is worth a fourth of a Dinar or more (Bukhari & Muslim) the two imams have recorded this Hadeeth.
Again, the other is explained by the action of the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) or the action of his companions and his confirmation. They used to cut the hand of the thief from the wrist as is known in the work of Hadeeth. The oral tradition explains the hand mentioned in the verse on Tayammum (dust ablution) And rub therewith your faces and hands (Al Maidah:6) is also the palm of the hand as is stated in a Hadeeth: Tayammum is the wiping of the face and the hands recorded by the two imams (Bukhari and Muslim) and Imam Ahmad and others from a tradition reported by Ammar bin Yasir (radhiallaahu anhu).
There are other verses that cannot be completely understood except through Sunnah. They are:
1. It is whose who believe and confuse not their beliefs with wrong, 'dhulm' that are (truly) in security for they are on (right) guidance (Al An'am:82).
The companions of the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) understood the word 'dhulm' in its general sense to mean every wrong doing, even if it be little. On this account the verse is regarded as dubious and they said, 'O Messenger of Allah, which of us did not involve his faith with obscurity?' He (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) said; It is not that. It is only the 'shirk'. Have you not heard what Luqman said: Verily, 'shirk' is a very great sin (dhulm) (31:13). The two imams have recorded it with others. 2. Allah says: When you travel on earth, there is no blame on you to shorten your prayer, for fear the unbelievers will persecute you (An Nisa':101). It is obvious from this verse that fear is a pre-requisite for the shortening of prayers. Some of the Prophet's companions asked him: 'Why do we shorten our prayers while we feel safe?' He said: It is a charity from Allah, so accept it (Muslim). 3. Allah says: The carcass and it's blood are forbidden to you (Al Maidah:3). In explanation of this verse, the corpse of locusts, fish, the livers, spleen of blood are lawful. So the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) said: He has made two dead things and blood lawful: the locusts and the fish, the liver and the spleen.
Baihaqi and others have recorded it as 'marfu' type of hadeeth as also 'mauquf' type. The 'isnad' of 'mauquf' is authentic and it is as good as 'marfu' tradition, since it is not stated in the form of a 'ra'y' (decision based on one individual's judgement, not on Qur'an and Sunnah). 4. Allah says: Say (O Muhammad SAW): 'I find not in that which has been revealed to me anything forbidden to be eaten by one who wishes to eat it, unless it be Maitah (a dead animal) or blood poured forth (by slaughtering or the like), or the flesh of swine (pork) for that surely is impure, or impious (unlawful) meat (of an animal) which is slaughtered as a sacrifice for others than Allah (Al An'am:145).
The Sunnah has forbidden many things not mentioned in the verse mentioned above, as for example in the saying of the Holy Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam): All predatory animals with tusk and every bird with claw are forbidden for consumption. There are other traditions which have forbidden the consumption of such animals as the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) is reported to have said on the Day of Khayber: Allah and His Messenger have prohibited the consumption of domesticated asses, for they are filth. The two imams have reported it. 5. Allah says: Who has forbidden the adornment of Allah which He has produced for His servants, and the things clean and pure (which he has provided for sustenance) (Al A'raf:32).
The Sunnah, too, has forbidden some adornments, and this is evident from the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) who is reported to have met some of his companions, and had a silk garment in one hand, and gold in the other, and said: These are prohibited to Muslim males, lawful to females. The hadeeths in their interpretation are many and well known in both the authentic collections of hadeeths, and others and the like of many examples well known to scholars familiar with hadeeth and Islamic Jurisprudence.
From what has been stated above, O Muslim Brethren, you can see the importance attached to Sunnah in Islamic Law. When we divert our intention again to the examples mentioned beside others not mentioned, we are certain that there is no way to understand the Qur'an correctly except in association with the interpretation of the Sunnah.
In the first example, the understanding of the 'sahabah' of 'dhulm' mentioned in the verse is on its general sense, despite the fact that the sahabah (rahiallaahu anhum) were, as stated by Ibn Mas'ud: 'The best of this community, most pious, profound in learning, least of dissimulation.' Yet with all that they erred in their understanding of that.
Were it not for the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam), who held them back from their mistaken notion, and made them take the step in the right direction in that the correct meaning of 'dhulm' in the context is shirk (association of partnership with Allah), we too would have followed in their wrong thinking. Allah, The Blessed and The Most High saved us from that wrong notion by the grace of the right direction of the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) and his Sunnah.
In the second example - with Allah's guidance - if not for the hadeeth mentioned above, we would have been in doubt at least with regard to the shortening of prayer (qasr-as-salat) during a journey while secure - if we did stipulate the condition of fear as obvious in the verse - till the companions saw the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) shorten the prayers when it was safe and secure.
In the third example, if not for the hadeeth, we would have forbidden ourselves the consumption of good things made lawful to us: locusts, fish, liver, and the spleen.
In the fourth example, if not for the hadeeths, some of which we have mentioned, we would have considered lawful what Allah has made unlawful through the dictum of the holy Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) like predatory animals, and the birds which have claws.
And so in the fifth example, if not for the hadeeths in regard to this question, we would have considered lawful what Allah prohibited through the words of His Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) like gold and silk.
It is for this, some forbearers (as-salaf) say that 'Sunnah' pronounces judgement of The Book (al-Qur'an).
The Deviation of those who are satisfied with The Qur'an to the exclusion of Hadeeth
It is a matter of regret that according to the interpretation found in the works of some commentators and modern authors, that it is permissible to do what is stated in the last two examples: Consumption of the predatory animals and the wearing of gold and silk by referring their interpretation only to the Qur'an.
Today, a sect exists called 'Quranites' who comment according to their whims and fancies; without seeking the explanation of the authentic Sunnah. They only accept and follow the Sunnah which suit their desires, the rest they throw behind. The Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) is reported to have said that: None of you reclines on his bed, the order comes to him on an affair which I am commanded to do or not to do. He says: 'I don't know, what is found in The Book of Allah we follow' (Tirmidzi). According to another report: What is found in The Book of Allah as 'Haram,' we pronounce it 'haram' (forbidden). Surely, I am given The Qur'an and its example with it. Yet, according to another report: What the Messenger of Allah has forbidden, Allah has prohibited it.
It is a matter of regret that one renowned scholar has written a book on Islamic law and its dogma, and in its preface, he says that he has written it and that he has made reference only to The Qur'an.
This true hadeeth gives positive evidence that the divine law of Islam - As-Shari'ah - is not merely Qur'an, but Qur'an and Sunnah. Therefore, whoever holds fast to one source for reference to the exclusion of the other, he held fast to neither of them, since both complement each other. The Qur'an says: Whoever obeys the Messenger, obeys Allah.
Allah says, No, by your Lord they do not believe until they submit to your adjudication in all disputes between them, then they do not find themselves oppressed with your decisions and they completely submit (An Nisa':65).
Again, Allah says When a matter has been decided by Allah and His Messenger, it does not behove a believer, man or woman, to have choice in their matter. One who disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he is indeed on a clearly wrong Path (Al Ahzab:36).
Furthermore, Allah says What the Messenger teaches you, take it, and what he forbids you, avoid doing it (Al Hashr:7).
In connection with this verse, I am marvelled by what is corroborated by Ibn Mas'ud (radhiallaahu anhu) that is, a woman came to him and told him, 'You who says: May Allah's curse be on 'Al-Namisat' and 'Al-Motanamisat' and those who tattoo.' He said 'Yes.' She said, 'I read the Book of Allah (Al-Qur'an) from beginning to its end. I did not find what you have said.' He told her, 'If you have read it, you would have found it. As for your reading what the Messenger teaches you, take it, and what he forbids you, avoid doing it.' She said, 'Certainly.' He said, 'I have heard the Messenger of Allah (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) say May Allah's Curse be on the Al-Namisat.' (Bukhari and Muslim)
*Namisah: a woman who plucks hers or others eyebrows - to be a thin line - to seek beauty. Such an act is forbidden. It is a means to change the form of Allah's creation. *Motanamisah: a woman who asks others to do it for her.
Inadequacy of Philology to understand The Qur'an From what has been stated above, it is clear that there is no scope for anyone with all his Arabic Scholarship to understand the glorious Qur'an, without the help of the Sunnah of the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam), his sayings and actions.
The companions of the Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) were the most knowledgeable in the language, which The Qur'an was revealed in, when it was not blemished by the incorrectness of the common folks knowledge or their grammatical mistakes. Yet, they erred in understanding the verses quoted above when they relied on language alone.
It is self-evident that a man well-informed of the Sunnah is more appropriate to understand The Qur'an and deduce the rules from it than one who is ignorant of it. How can it be a source to one who does not reckon it and does not make reference to it?
For this reason, it is part of the rules agreed upon that Qur'an should be interpreted by the Qur'an itself as well as the Sunnah, then by the sayings of the Sahabah... etc.
It is here that the cause of deviation of scholastic theologians (Ahlul Kalam) become clear, both ancient and modern, and their opposition to the forebearers 'As-salaf' (radhiallaahu anhum) in their doctrines not to speak of their laws. They are far from Sunnah, and knowledge of it, and rely on their intelligence and desires to decide on the verses of attributes and others.
What is best is what was written down in the exposition of Tahawi's doctrine (page 212 Fourth Edition):
When one is not well-informed of The Book and Sunnah, what would he say about the Fundamentals of Religion (usuluddin)? He only receives the assertion of someone. If he says that he takes it from The Book of Allah, he does not study the commentary of The Qur'an on the basis of prophetic traditions (hadeeth), and reflects over it, nor what the companions (Sahabah), and the following generations narrated, which is transmitted to us from the authorities whom the critics chose. They have not transmitted the system and arrangement of The Qur'an, but its poetic expression and meaning. They did not learn the Qur'an like children, but studied it with meaning. One who does not follow in their footsteps, speaks on his own accord. One who does that thinks it be the religion of Allah, and does not study The Book of Allah, he sins, even if he is right.
One who studies The Qur'an and The Sunnah, he is rewarded, even if he goes wrong, but if he is right in his opinion, his reward is doubled. Then he says:
What is obligatory, is submission to the Messenger (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) carrying out his saying and accepting his saying with satisfaction and belief without contradicting it with false ideas called 'apprehensive faculty' (Ma'qul) bearing doubt or complaint, or offering the opinions of men and the garbage of their intellect. We unite with The Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam) in judgement, submission, obedience and compliance, just as we have unison with Allah, glory be to Him, by worshipping Him by humility, submissiveness, repentance and reliance.
In short, what is obligatory on all Muslims is that they do not separate between Qur'an and Sunnah; whereas, it is obligatory to take both of them and to formulate the law on both of them.
This is a safeguard for them, so that they won't fall right or left; and that they won't fall back in error as explained by The Prophet (salallaahu alayhi wa-sallam): I leave behind me two things. You will never go astray if you hold fast to them: The Qur'an and my Sunnah.
It is obligatory on the learned, especially those who spread the knowledge of fiqh and legal opinions among the public, that they shouldn't dare to argue with hadeeth unless it is well-attested.
may Allaah give us the guidance to the siratul mustaqim (straight path). ameen. Jazakallaahu khairan.
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Sunday, November 30, 2008
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bismillah. alhamdulillaah. i've had one of the best week of my life. a week of ilm (knowledge), ukhwah (brotherhood), getting to know new people of the sunnah and experiencing hardship, trials and tribulations. a week to remember Allaah subhanahu wa ta'ala like every other day. may Allaah guide us to the siratul mustaqim (straight path). Amin.
all praise be to Allaah for making it happen. i never would have thought i would be involved so much with all syeikh yusuf's activities. my niat is sincere to gain knowledge and to gain experience, but it turned out to be more than what i asked for. Alhamdulillaah.
jazakumullahukhair to all the brothers and sisters involved with all the activities this past week, brother kamaruddin and brother luqman from IPSI penang, kak shima derus, pak din, uncle nik yusuf, nik faiz and all the people from al-nidaa'. brothers and sisters from darul ta'lim.
and specially to ustaz hussain yee, uncle rahim, uncle abas, uncle sharifuddin, uncle shahril from al-khaadem for having the trust in me and the rest: kwan, jeban, ca'in, fahmi, dzaki, zul ariff in giving us the task to be syeikh yusuf estes security entourage during all the yusuf estes-al-khaadem events.
and jazakallaahu khair to syeikh yusuf estes for all the knowledge, trust and advice during your stay here in malaysia. may Allaah reward all of us for our efforts and amal. Amin.
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Saturday, July 12, 2008
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I remember watching the TV3 program Al Kulliyyah (spelling?) a few years back (8-9 years perhaps), and the subject of that day was about jealousy. I'm not sure who the panel member was, but true enough among his first words were (in a form of rhetorical question): Apakah sifat nombor satu orang MELAYU?. in which he answered: 'Sifat nombor satu orang MELAYU adalah HASAD DENGKI.'
Noticed the emphasis on the bold words? I could affirm without a hint of doubt, a closer examination on the muslims in question (the MALAY people as an abstract race and as muslims) would reveal nothing but the absolute truth on the assertion that was put into place (HASAD DENGKI).
It's a pitiful fact that as muslims, the malays are among the most envious and hate-filled people within the general muslim community. What is more frightening is that; the malay people are extremely full of this evil that is devouring the heart of the ummah (community) so much so that the people have distance themselves from the mercy of ALLAH. And truthfully speaking, i as a muslim am concerned because it's a disease that is so common in our society that it has become a normality. I know (to be realistic) I could not change the mentality of our society but at least by trying I would hope for this stigma to be eradicated from our muslim society for the sake of ALLAH.
And to serve as a reminder to myself and to anyone who is reading this particular blog, i would like to share this article on the said subject. Only through having the knowledge of the destructive nature of hasad dengki that we may avoid falling into this evil. Naudzubillah. And with it (the knowledge) the cures that may benefit us.
As you read along, you might find the significance and some important lessons in light of recent events (i.e food, petrol price hike). May we benefit from this knowledge and may ALLAH guides us to the straight path.. Insya'Allah.Jealousy and its Cures
Hasad (jealousy and envy) is among the most destructive emotions or feeling which a man may have towards his fellow human being. It causes him to wish evil for others and to be happy when misfortune befalls them. Rasulullah (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) warned against envy by comparing it to fire that completely burns the wood. He (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'Beware of jealousy, for verily it destroys good deeds the way fire destroys wood.' [Sahih - Sunan Abu Dawood] Hasad is a disease of the heart and it causes impurity to the heart, when Rasulullah (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) was asked who are the best of people? He (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) replied: 'the one with a clean heart and truthful tongue.' They asked: 'We understand a truthful tongue, but what does a clean heart mean?' he answered: 'It is the heart of one that is pious, pure, and is free of sin, transgressions, hatred and Hasad.' [Sahih - Sunan Ibn Majah] Hasad is such a dangerous characteristic that Allah revealed verses of the Qur'aan to be recited as a protection from the jealous, 'Say: I seek refuge in the Lord of the dawn… from the evil of envious when he envies.' [Surah al-Falaq 113:1] At-Tirmidzi narrated from al-Zubayr Ibn al-Awam that Rasulullah (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'There has come to you the disease of the nations before you, jealousy and hatred. This is the 'shaver' (destroyer); I do not say that it shaves hair, but that it shaves (destroys) faith…' [(Hadith Hasan) Jamee at-Tirmidzi (2434)] Hasad can cause the person to indulge in disbelief because it causes the individual to feel that Allah has not been fair with him; he forgets all the mercy and blessings which Allah has bestowed upon him. The Messenger of Allah (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'They are enemies for Allah's bounties.' They asked: 'Who are they?' He said: 'Those who envy people for what Allah has given them of Bounty.' [at-Tabaranee] Allah through His Absolute Wisdom has given some people more wealth, intelligence, beauty, strength, children, etc. than others. The believing Muslim should be content with what Allah has destined for him. Allah says: 'Allah favored some of you over others with wealth and properties… Do they deny the favors of Allah?' [Surah an-Nahl 16:71] And: 'Do they envy men for what Allah has given them of His Bounty?' [Surah an-Nisa 4:54] 'It is We Who portion out between them their livelihood in this world, and We raised some of them above others in ranks, so that some may employ others in their work. But the mercy of your Lord is better.' [Surah az-Zukhruf 43:32] meaning mercy of Allah is better than the convenience of the world. The materials of this life do not make one superior to another in Allah's Judgment. True superiority lies in Taqwa (righteousness, fear of Allah). He said: 'Surely, the most noble of you to Allah is the most God-fearing.' [Surah al-Hujurat 49:13] 'And the Hereafter with Your Lord is (only) for those who have Taqwa.' [Surah az-Zukhruf 43:35] What belongs to the transient world is of no significance before Allah. The Prophet (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'If this world were worth a mosquito's wing before Allah, He would not give a disbeliever a drink of water.' [At-Tirmidzi] The favors of Allah in the world are a test; the more the favors, the more the tests. Al-Hasan al-Basri said: 'Umar Ibn Khattab wrote this letter to Abu Musa al-Ash'ari, 'Be content with your provision in this world, for the Most Merciful has honored some of His servants over others in terms of provision as a test of both. The one who has been given plenty is being tested to see if he will give thanks to Allah and fulfill the duties which are his by virtue of his wealth…' [Ibn Hatim] Allah, the Exalted, has therefore forbidden us from desiring what others have, 'Do not wish for what we have favoured some of you over others.' [Surah an-Nisa (4): 32] In order to discourage envy, the Prophet (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'Do not look to those above you. Look to those below you, as it will more likely remind you of Allah's favors bestowed on you.' [Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim] On another occasion, he said: 'If one of you looks at someone wealthier and better built than him, he should also look at someone of lower standard than himself.' [Sahih Muslim] Islam permits Ghibtah What Islam permits in contrast to Hasad (destructive jealousy) is Ghibtah (envy that is free from malice), which means neither loving the loss of the blessing nor hating for it to remain with the person, but desiring the same for oneself without the removal of the blessing from others. The Messenger of Allah (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'Envy is allowed in two cases, in case of a man whom Allah has given the Qur'aan and who recites it throughout night and day; and a man on whom Allah has bestowed wealth who gives it away throughout night and day.' [Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim] and he (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) also explained what may be said: 'I wish I were given what he was given and did with it what he did.' Rasulullah (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'The similitude of the people of this Ummah is like four individual. One whom Allah has given wealth and knowledge, so he handles his wealth with the knowledge. One whom Allah has given knowledge but not wealth and he says, 'Lord, should I have wealth like so-and-so I would have handled it like him.' So they both have the same reward. Such a person loves to have wealth like others so he can do good like others without wishing that the others lose their wealth. Another man, Allah has given him wealth but no knowledge and he spends his wealth in disobedience to Allah. And last, a man whom Allah has not given knowledge nor wealth but he says, 'Should I have wealth like so-and-so, I would spend it in the way he does.' So, both will have the same sin against them.' [Sunan at-Tirmidzi and Sunan Ibn Majah]Some Reasons that cause a person to have Jealousy
Anger and Malice: When one is hurt by someone for any reason, he is angered, and his anger produces malice and urge for revenge in the heart. The slave begins to desire harm for the other person, he enjoys when he sees him in hardships and he may further thinks that Allah has done it to him as an evil reward! And if the person is blessed with a gift, he grieves and this is Hasad, which does not harm the envied person but it hurts and destroys the Hasid (one who has Hasad) himself. In order to close the door to this evil Islam advises the Muslims to be forgiving in nature and control one's anger. Allah says in the Qur'aan: 'Those who spend (in Allah's Cause) in prosperity and in adversity, who repress anger, and who pardon men. Verily, Allah loves the good doers.' [Surah al-Imran 3:134] Arrogance, Pride and Love for fame: When a person achieves a high status and position in the society or gains wealth, he hates to see someone other than him compete or go ahead of him or be praised over him. So, he envies the former person. An example of this can be taken of the Jews and their Hasad towards Prophet Muhammad (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) for the Prophet-hood that Allah entrusted him with. Their envy made them reject the divine message given to him, because he was an Arab and not from the Children of Israel. It was their Hasad which caused them to make statements as such, 'It is these that Allah as favored among us?' [Surah al-Anam 6:53] 'And they say: 'Why is not this Qur'aan sent down to some great man of the two towns?' [Surah az-Zukhruf 43:31] and in Surah al-Mu'minun 23:34, 'If you were to obey a human being life yourselves, then verily, you indeed would be losers.' This also shows one of the grave dangers of Hasad that Hasad hinders the person from following the truth and accepting advice from others just as the Hasad of the disbelievers prevented them from accepting Islam. Evil Nature of the person: Some people, even though they may not be harmed or threatened by other people's success, grieve when they hear about some good happening to others, and enjoy in their adversities. Neither do they seek progress for themselves nor do they wish others to progress!! Such kind of defect is difficult to cure for the reason behind their evil attitude is the evil nature of the person which does not allow him to accept other people's success.
Repentance and Getting Rid of Jealousy
Firstly, the believer should have sincerity in repenting from Hasad as Allah's Messenger (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'Three things that every heart of a believer should not hate to have is sincerity in actions, rendering advise to leaders and holding to Jama'ah (community) of the Muslims, for their supplication surrounds everyone with them.' [Ahmad and Sunan Ibn Majah] Second requirement to get rid of Hasad is to get rid of all those means which cause one to have Hasad like anger, hatred, love for the world and discontentment. Discontentment comes from the slave's ignorance of his Lord. If he recognizes his Lord with the attributes of Perfection, All-Knowledgeable and All-Just to his slaves, he would not be discontent and as a result would not develop Hasad. Imam Ibn Qayyim (rahimahullah) said: 'It (contentment) opens the door of peace and security for the slave.' It makes his heart pure from hatred, evil and malice. The more contented the person is, the purer his heart is. However, this does not mean that the slave should not make efforts to improve his situation. A slave should work to gain success and progress but he should not envy those whom Allah has granted more wealth or possession but he should be content with the decisions of Allah. Thirdly, the slave should turn towards the Qur'aan which is a healing for the diseases of the heart. Allah says: 'O mankind! There has come to you a good advice from your Rabb and a healing for that in your chests.' [Surah Yunus 10:57] Supplicate to Allah to purify your heart. Allah said in the Qur'aan: 'And those who came after them say: 'Our Lord! Forgive us and our brethren who have preceded us in Faith and put not in our hearts any hatred against those who have believed. Our Lord! You are indeed full of kindness, Most Merciful.' [Surah al-Hashr 59:10] Give Sadaqah (charity) for it purifies the heart and sanctifies the soul. It is for this reason Allah said to His Prophet: 'Take Sadaqah from their wealth in order to purify them and sanctify them with it.' [Surah at-Taubah 9:103] If thoughts of Hasad cross one's mind, he should seek refuge in Allah from the accursed Syaitan and busy himself with something that will dispel these insinuating whispers and thoughts. But if the Syaitan manages to instill Hasad in the hearts, then beware lest you say or do anything which will show Hasad. A person will not be brought to account for whatever crosses his mind, but he will be brought to account for what he says and does. Shaikhul-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: 'Nobody is free from Hasad, but the noble person hides it whilst the base person shows it.' [Amraad al-Quloob] If you feel that you are jealous of a specific person, then buy him a gift, shake hands with him and give him salaams for Hasad is the result of hatred and Rasulullah (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'Shake hands, for this will dispel rancour (resentment), and exchange gifts and love one another, for this will dispel hatred.' [Narrated by Maalik in al-Muwatta (1413)] Abu Hurairah (radhi allahu anhu) narrated that the Prophet (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: 'By Allah, in Whose Hand is my soul, you will never enter Paradise until you believe. And you will not believe unless you love one another. May I tell you something that if you do, you may love one another? Spread Salaam amongst yourselves.' Ibn Abdul-Barr said: 'This proves that Salaam can lift hatred and produce love.' [Sahih Muslim]
Here's a story befitting the ending.
'A Man from the People of Paradise will enter now...' Anas Ibn Malik (radhi allahu anhu) reported that he and other companions were sitting with the Messenger (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam), who said: 'A man from the people of Paradise will enter now.' And a man from al-Ansar entered, with his beard dripping with water from Wudhu (ablution), and holding his sandals in his left hand. The following day, the Prophet (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said the same thing and the same man entered. On the third day, the Prophet (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) again repeated his statement and the same man entered with water dripping and holding his sandals. When the Prophet (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) left, Abdullah Ibn Amr Ibn al-As (radhi allahu anhu) followed the man and said: 'I quarreled with my father and I swore I would not go to him for three days and night. Would you shelter me for these days?' the man replied: 'Yes.' Anas said: 'Abdullah said that he stayed with this man for three nights and he did not see him praying at night, but every time he moved and changed position in bed he would remember Allah by saying, 'Allahu Akbar' until Solat Fajar.' Abdullah said: 'I didn't hear anything from him but good. When the three nights had passed… I said: 'O slave of Allah! I really didn't abandon my father nor was I angry with him. But, I heard the Messenger of Allah speaking of you on three separate occasions, the Prophet had said that a man from the people of Paradise would enter, and you were the one to enter on all the three times. So, I wanted to stay with you to see what you do so that I could follow you. But I have not seen you doing much. So what is that you do for Allah's Messenger (salallahu alaihi wa-sallam) to say what he had said?' The man replied: 'It is nothing more than what you saw.' When it was time to leave, he called me back and said: 'Yes, it is nothing more than what you saw, except that I have no place in myself for ill-intentions or Hasad towards any Muslim and what Allah has given them.' Abdullah said: 'This is what has made you deserving of the praise and this is what we cannot do.' [Musnad Ahmad] Jazakumullahu khairan.
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Sunday, May 18, 2008
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Current mood:  loved
Category: Games
Some people think that to live an Islamic life is "restrictive". Islam however, was revealed as a balanced way of living. Allah (The Most High) created all the humans with what is called 'A Fitrah' (a natural state/desire). Islam recognises that within this Fitrah there are motivations that influence a man's role on earth e.g. a desire for good food and drink, to have a home, a desire for love and sex, to protect and be protected and to be successful and strong. Without some form of control and limit, all of these legitimate motives could prove very dangerous.
So what constitutes the perfect control for the Fitrah? It must be a method that provides an organised yet practical demonstration of how to balance all these natural human desires. It cannot be something that goes against the Fitrah, by placing on it extra burdens. Likewise, it cannot be something that allows the human desires to run wild without any form of control.
Islam is the perfect control for the Fitrah. It provides a divine method that elevates man above animals and the rest of creation.
Humans lack perfect knowledge as well as perfect wisdom. No matter how hard we try, we will never attain the perfect way of life by our own thinking and interpretation. This is the reason why Allaah being the Most Wise, sent us the Qur'an and the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) to show us this practical and organised way of life.
Allaah, being Perfect, in His Wisdom and Knowledge, perfected a complete way of life for us. He has set His limitations and rules, all of which are beneficial to mankind, and therefore, do not need changing:
"These are the limits (set) by Allaah, so do not approach them" (Surah al-Baqarah 2:1871)
"These are the limits set by Allaah, so do not transgress them" (Surah al-Baqarah 2:229)
This is why Islam does not allow celibacy, because it is against the Fitrah, i.e., the desire for sex. Celibacy goes beyond the limits required by humans, and is something that cannot be fulfilled because humans are designed to procreate. As humans we are not expected to fast every single day for the rest of our lives (for most 30 days of the year provides an up-hill struggle). It is also from ignorance to say that 'I shall not sleep during the night, but rather I shall pray!' Humans have not been created by Allah to live life in such a manner. There is a balance which must be observed.
The following incident describes the Islamic stance towards such behaviour, Anas reported that some of the Companions of Allaah's Messenger (SAW) used to say: "I will not marry women"; someone else said: "I will not eat meat"; and someone else said: "I will not lie down in bed". (On hearing this): The Prophet (SAW) praised Allaah, and glorified Him and said: "what has happened to these people that they say so and so, whereas I observe prayer and I sleep too. I observe fast and I break my fast; I marry women also. And he who turns away from my Sunnah (i.e., my example or lifestyle), he has no relation with me"[Narrated in Saheeh Muslim vol. 2. p703. no. 32361]. Islam on the other hand, does not allow the person to surrender themselves to lust and desire, as in contemporary 'civilisation'. Islam recognises the love a man has for women, children, gold, silver, and other possessions. But it provides a limit for the amount of this worldly pleasure which we require, and reminds us of the life in the hereafter.
"Beautified for men is the love of things they desire: Women, Children, much of gold and silver (wealth), branded beautiful horses, cattle and well-tilled land. This is the pleasure of the present world's life, but Allaah has the excellent return (Paradise)"
(Surah Ali-Imran 3:141) The inclinations and desires of the Fitrah are not to become the objective in life. Rather they are to be taken in a stabilised manner. The way to deal with them is real and Allaah (The Most High) has given us the detailed descriptions of a levelled approach. This levelled approach gives mankind the perfectly balanced pleasure in this worldly life. The method of maintaining a well-balanced life is not an endurance test to see who lasts the longest. Allah has revealed Islam, to show us how to attain this balance in a real manner. Life is not a torturous spiritual test, where you are ordered to Iive in mountains and trees. Fasting all year round is not obligatory. Marriage is permissible and you do not have to beat yourself senseless to purify your soul! Rather as Muslims, we must try to follow the Prophet and his balanced teachings of life and living. As Allah says in the Qur'an:
"Indeed in the Messenger of Allah (saw), you have a good example to follow.." (Surah Al-Ahzab 33:21)
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Sunday, April 20, 2008
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this is an article written by brother syed zamir ahmed. may we benefit from this. insya'allah.
How often do we say such a phrase or say that "I was only joking". We treat lies as being trivial. However we are told that Allah's messenger did not hate anything more than lying
By Syed Zamir Ahmed Pick your teeth! It's one of the greatest sins and yet it's something we do day after day. Sometimes we don't even realise it. You're just chatting away with your friends and you begin to talk about somebody else. Our whole lives are based around 'Home and Away' and 'Neighbors', based on lying, backbiting and cheating.
But look at what the Prophet (SAW) said about it: The Prophet (SAW) was sitting with his companions one day and one of them was speaking badly about someone who wasn't there. As the man got up to leave the Prophet (SAW) said to him: "Pick your teeth!" "But I haven't eaten anything", the man protested. "No", the Prophet (SAW) said, "You have eaten the flesh of your dead brother!" As Allah tells us in the Qur'an: "Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? No, you would hate it." (Qur'an Surah Al-Hujuraat 49:12). But what if it's true? The Prophet told us, "Backbiting is to say something about someone they wouldn't like said about them ... If what bad you said about them is true, then you have backbitten and if it is false then you have slandered them!" (HR Muslim).
If you're still not convinced of how big sin backbiting really is, then look at the punishment Allah has in store for the backbiters. The Prophet described: "On the night of Miraaj (the Prophet's ascension to heaven), I passed by some people who had metal hooks in their hands and were clawing at their faces and their necks with them. I asked Jibraeel 'Who were these people?' He said 'These are the people who eat the flesh of human beings and disgrace them' " (HR Abu Dawud).
This is how big a sin as backbiting is looked upon and yet we continue to backbite without a second thought, next time you lie, talk about somebody, remember Allah and the Prophet and put them in front of you before you speak. Just having a laugh! May be we think it's all right to take the mick out of someone so long as we say it to their face. We'll make fun of the way someone talks, walks, or how they look. Allah warns us against such behavior: "O you who believe, let not some men laugh at others, it may be that they are better than you. Nor let some women laugh at others it may be that they are better than you. Nor abuse each other, nor be sarcastic to each other by using offensive nicknames..." (Qur'an Surah Al-Hujuraat 49:11) Don't forget that Allah made us the way we are, so how can you even think of making fun of his creation? Cool to swear? Listen to yourself and to your friends speaking one day - nearly every sentence will have a swear word in it, thinking it's cool and macho to swear, copying the idols of TV and the cinema. Is it really 'cool' to swear? The Hellfire is far from being cool. People will wish they were cool then rather than being cool in this world. Remember! That every time you speak, an angel writes down what you say, and that one day you will have to answer for every single word you ever uttered. So if you swear at someone then it's written down as a sin against you. You're only harming yourself.
The Prophet said that "Abusing a Muslim is a sin and fighting with him is disbelief" (HR Muslim). But sometimes you just have to swear! We've all been there - you're just so angry with somebody and the only way you can express yourself, is to swear at them. The solution? Don't get angry in the first place. A man came to the Prophet one day and said, "Advise me". The Prophet said, "Don't become angry. Don't become angry. Don't become angry... when one of you gets angry while he is standing up, he should sit down. Then anger will leave him, and if not then he should lie down" (HR Ahmad).
So let us follow this beautiful advice of the Prophet and remember that anger is from syaitaan. If someone angers you or swears at you then don't harm yourself by doing the same, but respond in a better way as Allah says in the Qur'an "Repel evil with what is better. Then he who was your worst enemy will become your best friend." (Qur'an Surah Fussilat 41:34) "It wasn't me who said it!" How often do we say such a phrase or say that "I was only joking". We treat lies as being trivial. However we are told that Allah's messenger did not hate anything more than lying [HR Ahmed]. The Prophet was once asked "Can a Muslim be a coward?" He replied "Yes". He was then asked "Can a Muslim be a miser?" and the reply was "Yes". The Prophet was again asked "Can a Muslim be a liar?" The Prophet replied "No! A Muslim can never be a liar". Furthermore, he said "Truth leads to virtue and virtue leads to paradise... Lying leads to wickedness and wickedness leads to the hellfire." (HR Bukhari).
As we know that one lie leads to another ten lies which leads to bad actions. Remember you can lie and think that you have got away with it, but on the day of Judgement your hands, tongue and feet will bear testimony against you and tell the truth.But it's only words! One day, one of the Companions asked the Prophet : "O Messenger of Allah, will we be called to account for what we say?" He replied: People will be thrown, faces down into the hellfire, only on account to what their tongues said!" (HR Tirmidhi).
Indeed the tongue controls the rest of your body. A well controlled tongue will keep us within Islam but a loose tongue will destroy us. Instead of swearing, lying and engaging in useless talk, we can use our tongues in better ways and what better than telling people about Islam. Allah says: "Who is better in speech than one who calls (people) to Allah and works righteousness and says I am one of those who bow down in Islam" (Qur'an Surah Fussilat 41:33). Your tongue can save you!Indeed if you control your tongue and speak good then paradise can be yours. The Prophet said: "Whoever can guarantee me two things I can guarantee them Paradise". The companions asked "What, O Messenger of Allah?" He replied: "What is between his jaws (his tongue) and his legs (private parts)" (HR Bukhari). "I must be doomed! I have lied, backbitten people, and swear all the time. I must be going to hell!" No! Allah (SWT) tells us in the Qur'an: "O my servants who have wronged themselves, never despair of the mercy of Allah - for truly He forgives all sins. He is the Forgiving, the Merciful." (Qur'an Surah Az-Zumar 39:53). So if you really repent and turn back to Allah and promise not to commit the sin again then truly Allah's promise is true and He will forgive you. If you've backbitten someone - go and tell the person whom you backbitten and apologize sincerely and ask them to forgive you. But if you think that the situation will get worse then turn back to Allah sincerely begging for his forgiveness then to make up for what you said, go around and talk good of him.
The best example as we know that the best person to have ever lived is the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and he is the best of example for mankind. If we follow him we can never go wrong. Final word of advice; beautiful saying of the Prophet that will ensure the protection of our tongue. The Messenger of Allah said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last day, LET HIM EITHER SPEAK GOOD OR KEEP SILENT!"
may we all be in the goodness and mercy of Allah. Jazakallahu Khairan!
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Saturday, April 19, 2008
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Current mood:  chill
All this while I've been wondering whether ghosts were really dead souls who came back to resolve their unfinished issues, or so I thought. hmmm.. maybe I've been watching too much TV. Anyways enjoy this one..
A POPULAR THEME OF MANY HORROR AND THRILLER NOVELS, MOVIES AND TELEVISION PROGRAMS CENTERS AROUND THE FALSE BELIEF THAT WHEN SOMEONE IS KILLED UNJUSTLY, HIS SOUL RETURNS IN ORDER TO SEEK JUSTICE, OR IT KEEPS WANDERING UNTIL JUSTICE IS DONE TO IT. REPEATED EXPOSURE TO THIS FALSE CONCEPT FROM EVERY FORM OF MEDIA HAS LEAD MANY TO UNKNOWINGLY BELIEVE IN IT... Whilst some take this concept very seriously, and make use of un-Islamic measures, like the hanging of amulets and pagan rituals to protect themselves from the revengeful soul, others simply consider these issues to be unimportant and do not bother to seek knowledge about it. But the fact remains, that not only do many people fear the souls, but entire religions are focused around ancestor and soul worship. Large amount of wealth is spent on making offerings to the souls and many rituals and festivals are held in this regard, for example, many people believe that the deceased visit this world on the 15th of Syaaban also known in our country as nisfu syaaban (amalan bid'ah ni) and they call it 'Eid of the Dead.' Some even go to the extreme of preparing the foods that the deceased liked! It is therefore essential that the Muslims be informed about the gravity of this call and be educated about the correct Islamic Aqidah (belief). This article is specifically aimed to expose the falsity of these beliefs and bring to the reader authentic proofs from the Qur'aan and the Sunnah, which undoubtedly reject the soul's return. We hope that this article will dispel doubts and confusion around the subject. And with Allah lies all success. Islamic Concept of the Soul: Soul is from the matters of the unseen and nothing can be said in its explanation without established proofs from the Book and the Sunnah. The knowledge required for our welfare in this world and the Hereafter has been conveyed to us by the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam), and there is no need to seek any goodness beyond that. The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "There is nothing that will take you closer to Paradise but that I have enjoined it upon you, and there is nothing that will take you closer to Hell but that I have warned you from it." [Musnad ash-Shafi'e and others] The Jews asked Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) about the soul and in reply the Qur'aan said: "They ask you concerning the soul. Say that the soul is from Allah and you have not been given knowledge of it except a little." [Surah al-Isra' (17): 85] The Soul is a creation of Allah, whose function is to bring life to the human body. It remains with the human body throughout the life and departs at death. After which the souls are either held in Paradise or punishment. There is no returning back of the souls of the righteous people from Paradise, and no escaping of the souls of evildoers from the punishment of the grave. Therefore, pious or evil, the souls do not return to this world, neither to take revenge nor to assist the living. Neither is there any concept in Islam, which explains that justice is dependant upon the soul's coming back and setting things aright. Islam teaches that Allah is responsible to see that every being gets its due right and injustice does not go unpunished. Journey of the Soul after Death Death Death occurs when the soul separates from the human body and enters the realm of 'Barzakh', which is the period between one's death and the Hereafter. Appearing of the Angels (a) The Believing Soul: Angels with faces shining bright like the sun descend from the Heavens, carrying a shroud and fragrance of Paradise and sit away from him as far as the eye can see. The Angel of Death then approaches and says: "O good soul, come out to Allah's forgiveness and pleasure." The soul then comes out as gently as a drop from a water-skin, and he seizes it. Within the blinking of an eye, the other Angels take the soul and put it in the shroud and fragrance. There will then come from the soul, a fragrance like that of the sweetest musk found on the face of Earth. (b) The Disbelieving Soul: Angels with black faces come down to him from the Heaven with hair-cloth and sit away from him as far as an eye can see. The Angel of death comes to him and says: "O wicked soul, come out to the displeasure from Allah. The soul becomes scattered in the body, and the Angel of Death draws it out as violently as a spit is drawn out from moistened wool. He then seizes it, and when he does so, the other Angels do not leave the disbelieving soul in his hand for an instant, but put it in that hair-cloth and from it comes forth a smell like the most offensive corpse found on the Earth. Ascending to the Heaven (a) The Believing Soul: The Angels ascend the believing soul to the Seventh Heaven and every group of Angels they pass asks: "Who is this good soul?" to which they reply: "So and so, the son of so and so." using his best names by which people called him on the Earth. Then the believing soul is presented before Allah. Allah, the Great and Glorious, says: "Record the Book of My servant in the Illiyyoon and take him back to Earth, for I created mankind from it, and I shall return them to it, from it I shall bring them forth again." (b) The Disbelieving Soul: The Angels take the disbelieving soul up to the Heaven and do not bring it pass a company of Angels without their saying: "Who is this wicked soul?" to which they reply: "So and so, the son of so and so." Using the worst names that he was called in the world. When he is brought to the lowest Heaven, request is made for the gate to be opened for him, but it is not opened for him. Allah, who is most Great and Glorious, then says: "Record his Book in Sijjin (the lowest place) and his soul is thrown down to Earth." Questioning in the Grave (a) The Believing Soul: The Soul is temporary restored in the body. Two Angels come to it and ask: "Who is your Lord?" He replies: "My Lord is Allah." They ask: "What is your religion?" He replies: "My religion is Islam." They ask: "Who is this man who was sent among you?" and He will reply: " He is the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam)." They ask: "What was the source of your knowledge?" He replies: "I have read Allah's Book, believed in it and declared it to be true." Then one cry is heard from the Heaven: "My servant has spoken the truth..." (b) The Disbelieving Soul: Angels approach the disbelieving soul for questioning, but he can barely answer their questions by saying: 'Alas! I do not know…' The Abode and Companion (a) The Believing Soul: Some of the joys of Paradise and its fragrance come to him and his grave is made spacious for him as far as an eye can see. A man with a beautiful face, beautiful garments and sweet odor comes to the righteous slave and says: "Rejoice in what pleases you, for this is your day which you have been promised." He asks: "Who are you?" He replies: "I am your good deeds." He then says: "My Lord, bring the Last Hour; my Lord bring the Last Hour, so I may return to my people and my property." (b) The Disbelieving Soul: Some of the Hell's heat and hot air comes to him, his grave is made narrow for him such that his ribs interpenetrate into each other. A man with an ugly face, ugly garments and an offensive odor comes to him and says: "Be grieved with what displeases you, for this is your day which you have been promised." He asks: "Who are you? For your face is most ugly and brings evil." He replies: "I am your wicked deeds." He then says: "My Lord, do not bring the Last Hour." From the above we know how the soul is taken out of the human body upon death and presented before Allah. If the soul is righteous, it enjoys the bounties of Allah and if it is wicked, it suffers the torment of the grave, which is very severe and none can escape its anguish and suffering. The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "This Ummah will be tried in its grave. If it were not for the fear that you might not bury your dead, I would pray to Allah to make you hear what I hear." [Sahih Muslim] Uthman Ibn Affan (radhiallahu anhu) used to cry until he wet his beard, if he was to stand on a grave. He was told: 'You mention the Heaven and the Hell-Fire and you don't cry, but when you mention the grave, you burst in tears!' He said: 'I heard the Prophet of Allah (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) saying: "The grave is the first stage of the Hereafter, whoever passes it will be at ease afterwards, and if he does not succeed in it, he will be in worst of conditions." I also heard him saying: "Never have I seen a sight more horrifying than that of grave." To the living, the grave is simply an empty, dark hole in the ground, but to the dead it is a window into either Paradise or Hell, where he faces the realities of the Hereafter all by himself. The grave is a place of solitude, and there is no greater isolation than this! What can be a bigger isolation for someone, than being separated from parents, family, and relatives? One leaves back all his possession and wealth and is put in the grave, under gravel and sand? Nothing accompanies the dead in his grave except his deeds, Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "Three things follow a dead man, two of which will return and one will remain with him. His people, his property and his deeds follow him but his people and property return, while his deeds remain with him." [Sahih al-Bukhari (8/ 521)] At this time, if one's deeds are good and righteous, they become for him a good company. Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "(After the questioning) a man with a beautiful face, beautiful garments and sweet odor comes to the righteous slave and says: "Rejoice in what pleases you, for this is your day which you have been promised." He asks: "Who are you? For your face is perfectly beautiful and brings good." He replies: "I am your good deeds." He then says: "My Lord, bring the Last Hour; my Lord bring the Last Hour, so I may return to my people and my property." Regarding the evildoer, he (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "… a man with an ugly face, ugly garments and an offensive odor comes to him and says: "Be grieved with what displeases you, for this is your day which you have been promised." He asks: "Who are you? For your face is most ugly and brings evil." He replies: "I am your wicked deeds." He then says: "My Lord, do not bring the Last Hour." [Sahih al-Jami as-Sageer, 1/1676] All this and the Hereafter has still not commenced for us. So, let this be a reminder for all to prepare for death by doing good deeds in accordance to the Qur'aan and the Sunnah, even if it means to give a trifle in charity. Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "Protect yourself from the Hellfire, even by a part of a date (that is given in charity)." [Sahih al-Bukhari] After clarifying the good and evil in this world, Allah, the Exalted, has given every man a free will to choose between them. It is up to the individual, whether he takes enough good deeds to accompany him in his grave, or he chooses to carry the burden of evil deeds. This choice of evil and good is only valid as long as one is alive. As death approaches, all deeds come to an end and the person becomes weak and helpless; so helpless that after death he is in need of the living to give him ghusl, shroud him, place him in his grave and make Du'aa for his forgiveness. Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "When the coffin is ready (for its burial) and people lift it on their shoulders, then if the deceased is a righteous person he says, 'Take me ahead,' if he is not a righteous one, then he says, 'Woe to it (me)! Where are you taking it (me)!' And his voice is audible to everything except human beings; if they heard it they would fall down unconscious." [Bukhari (2/ 462)] After knowing the realities of death, how helpless and weak man becomes after death, and how he faces the realities of the Hereafter and witnesses the great Power of Allah… Can a Muslim, who believes that Allah alone has the Power to benefit and harm, accept that a dead man's soul can come back to this world and help the living? Or after witnessing the Power of Allah the dead would dare to scare the living, harm them, possess them or demand offerings from them, etc…etc…? Barzakh forbids any Return Allah and His Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) have clearly defined to us journey of the soul after death and the abode of both, the disbelieving souls and the righteous souls. This period between the death and the Hereafter is known as 'Barzakh'. Linguistically, 'Barzakh' means a veil, barrier or partition between two things. Ibn Abbas (radhiallahu anhu) defines Barzakh as a Hijab (a partition of veil). Al-Qurtubi, in his exposition states: 'The Barzakh is a barrier between two things. It is the stage between this world and the other world - from the time of death until the time Resurrection. Thus, whoever dies enters the Barzakh" [See al-Qurtubi's Tafseer, vol.12, p.150] Once the soul enters the realm of Barzakh, there is no return for it back into the world as is clearly known from the Qur'aan and the Hadith of Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam). Allah says regarding the evil soul: "…when death comes to one of them (who joins partners with Allah), he says: "O My Lord! Send me back to life. In order that I may do good deeds in the things that I neglected. By no means! It is but a word he says. And before him is a Barzakh until the day they are raised up." [Surah al-Mu'minuun (23): 99-100] This verse reveals the condition of the disbeliever upon death; when he faces the realities of the Hereafter, he wishes to return back to the world and mend his mistakes, in order to avert the punishment. But he is plainly refused and confined in the grave and punished for his sinful actions because he has entered the Barzakh. It is impossible for him to escape the strong Guardian Angels of Allah and return back to this world. The abode of the righteous soul is Paradise, the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "The soul of a believer is a bird eating from the trees of Paradise until Allah restores it to its body on the Day of Resurrection." [An-Nasa'ee, Ibn Majah and others. Authenticated by Shaikh al-Albanie; Sharh al-Aqidah at-Tahaawiyyah (p. 455, footnote: 1)] It is unlikely that the righteous soul, who is surrounded by the bounties of Allah, would leave the blessings of Allah and come to the world. Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "No servant who has good in store for him with Allah and dies ever wants to return to the Earth - even if he were to have the whole world and everything that is in it - except for the martyr. That is due to what he sees in the nobility of martyrdom. Verily, he would like to return back to the Earth, in order to be martyred another time." [(Sahih) Sahih Sunan at-Tirmidzi (1341)] But as the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) informed, even the martyr is refused the permission to return, he (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "The souls of the martyrs live in the bodies of green birds who have their nests in chandeliers hung from the throne of the Almighty. They eat the fruits of Paradise wherever they like and then nestle in these chandeliers. Once, their Lord cast a glance at them and said: "Do you want anything?" They said: "What more can we desire? We eat the fruit of Paradise wherever we like." Their Lord asked them the same question thrice. When they saw that they would be continued to be asked and not left (without answering the question), they said: "O Lord, we wish that You may return our souls to our bodies so that we may be slain in Your cause once again. When He (Allah) saw that they had no need, they were left (to their joy in Heaven)." [Sahih Muslim (4651)] These and many other proofs from the Qur'aan and the Sunnah deny the concept of the soul's return, and thus there remains no doubt that souls of the dead do not return back to the world. Observed Phenomenon If spirits do not return back to this world, then what is the explanation for the Observed Phenomenon, like the physical appearance of the dead, speaking of the souls through medium, and leaving messages for the living using Ouija boards? And how do these spirits answer every question correctly about the life and character of the dead? Appearing of the Spirits: The alleged appearing of the spirits is an ancient claim. Many a time, it is fabrication simply through deception, trickery, and psychological influence. In other cases, it is done through the use of Jinn. Deception is an old and well-known trick that the Jinn use to mislead mankind; they play with the minds of humans in order to ruin their religion and cause them to commit Shirk. A clear understanding of the topic should help the Muslims not to be deceived by the spiritualists. The spiritualists, who claim to have contacts with the spirits of the dead from an Islamic point of view, are in fact un-religious and liars. They make contacts with the Jinn through evil incantations and demonic rituals and perform extraordinary feats with ease through them. Ibn Taymiyyah (rahimahullah) said: "Many of those people (the so called spiritualists) write the Words of Allah in blood or other impure substances. They write or make other statements that are pleasing to Syaitaan." [See Majmoo al-Fatawa, v.19, p.35] The Jinn (sing. Jinni): The Jinn are a living creation of Allah, created from smokeless flame of fire. They share the material world with the humans. Though they are invisible to us, they eat and drink with us, and also have the ability to inhabit the human body and influence our thoughts. They are stronger than humans and can take different forms and shapes. Amongst them are Muslims and Kafirs; the Kafir Jinn help their counterpart among the humans in evil acts. When the spiritualist contacts a Jinni, the Jinni takes advantage of his ability to acquire different forms and adopts the appearance of the dead and pretends to be the returned souls. This is one of the ways by which the Syaitaan attempts to deceive humans and lead them astray. For example, on the Day of the Battle of Badar, a devil came to the polytheist of Quraysh in the shape of Suraqah bin Malik. This incident is also related in the Qur'aan in Surah al-Anfal (8): 48: "(Remember) when the Syaitaan (evil Jinn are called Syaitaan meaning 'devils') made their (evil) deeds seem fair to them and said: 'No one of mankind can overcome you this Day (of the battle of Badar) and verily, I am your neighbor (for each and every help).' But when the two forces came in sight of each other, he ran away and said: 'Verily, I have nothing to do with you. Verily! I see what you see not. Verily, I fear Allah for Allah is severe in punishment." Another incident is related in Sahih al-Bukharee; a Jinni came to Abu Hurayrah (radhiallahu anhu) several times, when he was in charge of the alms in Ramadan. Abu Hurayrah (radhiallahu anhu) narrates: "Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) ordered me to keep Sadaqah (al-Fitr) of Ramadan. A man came and started taking handfuls of the foodstuff (of the Sadaqah, stealthily). I took hold of him and said: "By Allah, I will take you to Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam)." He said: "I am needy and have many dependents, and I am in great need." I released him, and in the morning Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) asked me: "What did your prisoner do yesterday?" I said: "O Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam)! The person complained of being needy and of having many dependents, so, I pitied him and let him go." Allah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "Indeed, he told you a lie and he will come again." Then the visitor came again and the same episode repeated twice, after which Allah's Messenger asked: "O Abu Hurayrah! … Do you know whom you were talking to, these three nights?" Abu Hurayrah said: "No!" He (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) said: "It was Syaitaan." [Saheeh al-Bukharee 3/ 505] Similarly, the Syaitaan makes use of this extraordinary ability of taking the appearance of the dead people, and performs supernatural feats at graves and tombs. People witness these unusual events and increase in the veneration of the dead. Eventually, these unusual events cause people to have faith and hope in the powers of the dead and they call upon the engraved to fulfill their needs instead of Allah and thus commit Shirk...and this is exactly what the Syaitaan (Kafir Jinn) intends. Shaikhul-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah (rahimahullah) said: "To take the graves as idols is the first step towards polytheism; it is why some visitors to graves hear the voices near the graves, see certain visions before them, witness strange forces in operation which are taken for a miracle of some righteous deceased people whereas sometimes they are the Jinn and the Syaitaan. For instance, they observe a grave being cleft and the deceased comes out of it, talks with people and embraces them. Such a thing you will witness near the graves of the Divine Apostles and other people, whereas in reality it is Syaitaan. Indeed, the Syaitaan assumes the form of a human being and says: 'I am so and so Prophet.' 'I am so and so Shaikh'; and he tells a lie… The ignorant person believes that the one who came out of the grave, who caressed him or conversed with him, was the inmate of the grave, or was a righteous person or a Divine person. In contrast to it, a perfect believer knows without any shadow of doubt that he is Syaitaan." [Kitab al-Wasilah (English Translation) pp. 42] The Qareen: Every human has been assigned a Jinni to be his constant companion. He is called 'Qareen' and he encourages evil desires. The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam) once told his companions: "Everyone of you has been assigned a companion from the Jinn." They asked: "Even you, O Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihe wa-sallam)!" He replied: "Even me, except that Allah has helped me against him and he has submitted. Now he only tells me to do good." [Sahih Muslim] It is this Qareen, who is responsible for knowing the character and deeds of the dead. For example, during séances (apparently) a Jinni often pretends to contact the dead and allows them to speak to the living. In fact, the Jinn had contacted the Qareen of the dead. The Qareen, who was a constant companion of the dead person and knew his entire life history, will be able to mimic the voice of the deceased and answer any questions accurately (about the dead person's life), thus fooling those present into believing that they are in the presence of spirits. In Conclusion, souls of the dead cannot and do not come back to earth, they cannot appear to or converse with the living inhabitants of the Earth. Causing people to believe in the return of the souls is one of the means adopted by Syaitaan to misguide mankind. By pretending to be returned souls of the dead along with the performance of extraordinary feats, they deceive people into believing in the powers of the dead. This has become a religious science of its own having no basis in the Qur'aan or the Sunnah. Ultimately, it leads to the worship of the souls of the dead and in reality worship of the Syaitaan himself. [See Majmoo al-Fatawa v.1/p.359-61]
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Wednesday, April 02, 2008
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Istikharah (The Prayer for Seeking Guidance)
Introduction to Solat al-Istikharah
A spiritually immense prayer, endowing the Muslim with tranquility and restfulness. A prayer in which a servant if concerned with an affair or is faced with a worldly problem or intends to do something recommended or obligatory in which he has a choice, or when two recommended or obligatory actions conflict each other – which one should he do? Which one should he put forward? He should pray two Rakaa’hs of al-Istikharah prayer, then make a Du’aa specified by our noble Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam), seeking guidance form his Lord and seeking the counsel of his Creator and by it actualizes his servitude to Him, built upon the truthfulness of his certainty and his assurance in his Lord. Know that this great Du’aa (Du’aa of Istikharah) contains important issues, Tawheed in Allah’s Lordship, and humility in worship to Him, and Iman in His Names and Attributes, and the servant fulfilling servitude to His Lord, firm reliance upon and seeking Allah’s help, asking and pleading in His Knowledge, and Power, for His Blessings, and then contentment in what is decreed for him. So, if al-Istikharah contained nothing more than the realization of these great meanings it would be enough in goodness. Verily, how Perfect He is, who prescribed for His servants the good of this world and the Hereafter.
What is Solat al-Istikharah? Linguistically al-Istikharah comes from the verb Istikharah which means ’seeking / requesting guidance in what is good.’ So, al-Istikharah is the noun for request or action. While in the Islamic terminology al-Istikharah means that a servant seeks guidance from his Lord upon the manner described by the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) by praying two rakaahs of supererogatory prayer, then supplicating with the specific Du’aa for al-Istikharah for doing an action which is mubah (action which neither brings about reward if performed nor brings about punishment if abandoned - allowed) or for leaving it, or in an obligatory or recommended action in which he has a choice.
Since, the servant is weak in his comprehension, ignorant of the unseen and indecisive about his actions, Allah, the Most High and the Most Merciful, ordained Solat al-Istikharah for him whenever he faces an obstacle or is concerned about an affair: he consults his Creator and seeks His guidance with regard to it because Allah Alone is the Knower of Ghaib (unseen), He Alone is the most knowledgeable about the reality of the affairs and their results, their benefits from their harms, their good from their evil, in this world and the Hereafter:
"And with Him are the keys of Unseen, none know them but He. And He knows whatever is there in the earth and in the sea. Not a leaf falls but by His knowledge; there is not a grain in the darkness (or the depth) of the earth, nor any flesh or dry (green or withered) but is written in a Clear Record." [Surah al-An’aam (6): 59] Hence, when the servant is concerned about an affair or decided upon a matter, or a problem arises in his mind and he wishes to act upon it, then he should seek guidance form his Lord before embarking upon it according to the manner prescribed in the Sunnah of the Messenger (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam). Is there any Proof for Solat al-Istikharah? Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: "From the prosperity of an individual is his seeking guidance from his Lord and his contentment with what He has ordained and from the misfortune of an individual is his abandoning seeking guidance form his Lord and his displeasure after what is decreed (for him) comes to pass" [Sahih at-Tirmidzi, Ahmad, al-Haakim and other] As for the proof for the permissibility of Solat al-Istikharah then Imaam al-Bukhari narrates in his Saheeh that Mutraf bin Abdullah Aboo Mus’ab narrated to us that Abdur-Rahmaan ibn Abee al-Mawaal narrated to us from Muhammad ibn al-Munkadir from Jaabir (radhi allahu anhu):’the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) used to teach us al-Istikharah (seeking of guidance) in all of our affairs, like he would teach us a Surah of the Qur’aan saying: "If any of you is concerned about an affair, then let him pray two rakaahs other then the obligatory prayers after which he should supplicate: ’O Allah, I seek Your counsel by Your knowledge and I seek Your assistance by Your Power and I ask You from Your immense favor, for verily you are able while I am not, and verily You know and I do not, and You are the knower of the unseen. O Allah if You know this affair is to be good for me in relation to my religion, my life and end (or he said my present and my future), then decree and facilitate it for me and bless me with it. And if You know this affair to be detrimental (harmful) for me concerning my religion, my life and end (or he said my present and my future), then remove it from me and remove me from it and decree for me what is good wherever it be and make me satisfied with it.’ And he mentions his need" [Ahmad (3/344), al-Bukhari (eng. trans. Vol.2, no.263), Abu Dawud eng. trans. Vol.1, no. 1533, an-Nisa’ee (no. 3253), at-Tirmidzi (no.480) and Ibn Majah (no. 1383)] Explanation of the Meaning of the Du’aa al-Istikharah "O Allah, I seek Your counsel by Your knowledge" Meaning I request You that You choose good for me and help me in this need of mine and I seek a means of approach to You by Your knowledge which encompasses everything in the heavens and the earth." Seeking help by the Absolute Knowledge of Allah and seeking a means of approach by it, is very appropriate, since the need of seeking guidance is connected with the Unseen and Allah Alone is the one, with Eternal knowledge that extends over everything and nothing escapes from it and verily, He knew all that which occurred, what will occur and all that which did not occur: "Verily, Allah is All-Knower of everything" [(8): 75] And Indeed, nothing escapes His Knowledge:"And that Allah surrounds (comprehends) all things in His Knowledge" [(65): 12] And "With Him are the keys of Ghaib (all that is hidden) none knows them but He. And He knows whatever there is on the earth and in the sea; not a leaf falls, but He knows it. There is not a grain in the darkness of the earth nor anything fresh or dry, but is written in a Clear Record." [(6): 59] ================================== "And I seek Your assistance by Your Power and I ask you from Your immense favor, for verily you are Able and I am not" Meaning I request from You in that which You have decreed for me, and I seek means of approach to You by Your Power. Here, the slave of Allah requests His Lord to make Him content with His choice by His Power, Ability and Immense Favor, since, the slave’s ability is from the Ability and Power of Allah, otherwise he is weak. Making matters easy is from the Ability of Allah and the Great Favor from Him that He has bestowed upon His slaves, if He doesn’t make things easy for His slave, they will turn difficult and he may dislike what Allah chooses for him, unaware of the good that is placed in it for him. So, he requests Allah from His immense Favor keeping in view the following statement of Allah: "And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not." [Surah al-Baqarah (2): 216] One of the manifestations of this great fact is the treaty of Hudaybiyah. The year of Hudaybiyah, when the pagan Arabs of Quraish tribe prevented the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) and his Companions (radhi allahu anhu) from entering Makkah to perform Umrah. Instead of the severe conditions imposed by the Mushriks and great dislike of the treaty by his Companions, Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) accepted them, being confident that Allah would not abandon him and that He will grant him victory. Allah knew that the treaty of al-Hudaybiyah was the beginning of victory. On the way back to Madinah Allah revealed the verse: "Verily! We have given you (O Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam)), Fathan Mubeen, a manifest victory." [(48): 1] And indeed, due to the treaty, many good things regarding the manifestation of Deen and retreat of Kuffr took place. People came nearer and entered discussions with each other, Muslims could speak about Islam with proofs and evidences. There came in the fold of Islam as many people as the people who entered before. And regarding this treaty Allah says in His Book: "He knew what you knew not, and He granted besides that a near Fathan (victory)." [(48): 27] ==================== "And verily You know and I do not, and you are the Knower of unseen" "Say: None in the heavens and the earth know the unseen except Allah." [Surah an-Nahl (27): 65] So not a soul knows anything from the Ghaib (unseen), except by His permission: This permission is of two types: 1. Permission through Revelation – Particular to the Prophets and Messengers: "(He Alone) the All-Knower of the Ghaib, and He reveals to none His Ghaib. Except to a Messenger whom He has chosen (He informs him of unseen as much He likes), and then He makes a band of watching guards (angels) to march before him and behind him." [Surah Al-Muzzammil (73): 26-27] And similar was the case with the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam), the information of the future in his prophecies were the little that he was told of the future through the Angel Jibreel (alaihis-salaam) and not a result of his own knowledge. Allah made him manifest to this when He said: "Say: I have no power to bring good to myself nor avert harm, but it is only as Allah wills. If it were that I know the unseen, I would have multiplied the good and no evil would have touched me." [Surah al-A’raf (7: 188] 2. Permission through the creation of the universe – Knowledge of the way Allah’s creation operate and its scientific discoveries – whatever a believer or a disbeliever comes to know from the knowledge that was previously unknown, like the discovery of electricity etc… ======================== "O Allah if You know this affair to be good for me in relation to my religion, my life and end (or he said my present and my future), then decree and facilitate it for me and bless me with it. And if You know this affair to be detrimental for me concerning my religion, my life and end (or he said my present and my future), then remove it from me and remove me from it and decree for me what is good wherever it be and make me satisfied with it." Here, the slave asks Allah for His Blessings in his affair because if Allah guides him due to His Knowledge, helps him due to His Ability and Power, then he needs Allah’s help to preserve it and His Blessings in it so that his matter becomes firm and grows. Precisely, Istikharah is dependant on three things: 1. The Absolute Knowledge of Allah 2. Allah’s Ability and Power of decreeing 3. Allah’s Blessings, which does not diminish, and His generosity, which is not repelled. For theses reasons, it is appropriate to start the Du’aa with seeking a means of approach by His Knowledge in choosing what is good for him, then follows that which is required for his choice to be attained, by seeking help through His Power – the ability to enact the action. Then, because the affair requires the blessing of Allah and His favors so that the choice is blessed and so is the benefit from it – it is appropriate that he asks Allah for His blessings, which encompass everything. Then, since the slave is short-sighted, his affairs unsettled, not being pleased with what is given to him and not content with what is ordained for him, it is appropriate that he should end his Du’aa by asking for contentment in what will be ordained for him. Wisdom and Benefits behind seeking Guidance from Allah, the All-Knower: Apart from the great blessing that Allah, the Exalted grants by answering the Du’aa (supplication) and fulfilling the request, there are many more benefits in performing this beautiful prayer. 1. The first of the benefits is the realization of the meaning of worship for Allah – comprising of humility to Him, expressing one’s weakness and lowliness to Him, manifesting one’s need and dependence upon Him, imploring Him, asking for the best of Him. Realization of Tawheed of Worship – a necessary aspect of eeman and the reason behind the creation of mankind: "I did nor create Jinn and mankind, except for My worship" [Surah Adh-Dhariyat (51): 56] 2. Realization of the Tawheed of Allah’s Lordship and Tawheed of Allah’s Names and Attributes by affirming that in His Hands are the keys of the affairs and He knows the Unseen matters of the heavens and the earth and He loves good for His slaves and He chooses that which benefits them. "And your Lord creates whatsoever He wills and chooses…" [Surah al-Qasas (28): 68] "And with Him are the keys of Unseen, none know them but He. And He knows whatever is there in the earth and in the sea. Not a leaf falls but by His knowledge; there is not a grain in the darkness (or the depth) of the earth, nor any flesh or dry (green or withered) but is written in a Clear Record." [Surah al-An’aam (6): 59] 3. Assurety of Allah and pleasure with His decree before and after the Istikharah, reliance upon Him, and resigning the affairs to Him, thus removing the confusion, hesitation and anxiety which weakens the self, wearing down the body, giving way to distress and sorrow. 4. The fourth benefit is that Allah grants the request of one who makes al-Istikharah. Allah grants him two favors who makes al-Istikharah: the first that Allah answers the Du’aa of His servant and this is a great benefit and an evidence of the servants piety or him gradually achieving it. The second is the ability to enact the affair for which he sought guidance and choosing the good for him, turning and directing him towards it rather than abandoning him and leaving him astray. How to perform the Solat al-Istikharah?
First – Fulfill all the conditions of supererogatory prayer – which are the same conditions of the obligatory prayer except the condition of the entering time for that particular prayer. The conditions of prayer are: a) The clothes being clean and free of any impurities b) The body being in the state of purity c) The place of prayer being clean and free of any impurities d) Covering of the aurat (that which individual men and women must cover) e) Entering of the time for that particular prayer f) Facing the Qiblah (The Ka’bah in Makkah) g) Intention [Refer to Fiqh books for a detailed explanation on these points] Second – Praying two rakah’s of supererogatory (Nafl) prayer with the intention of al-Istikharah (Seeking Guidance). The prayer does not have any particular time before which one must make al-Istikharah for a particular affair. Neither does it have a favored time [1] nor any specific Surah is prescribed for this prayer. But there is nothing wrong if one strives to perform it in times in which a du’aa is more likely to be answered, since al-Istikharah is a du’aa. [For more information about the times in which du’aa is more likely to be answered, refer to our forthcoming articles Du’aa] It should bear born in the minds that al-Istikharah is made after concern and when one has made the intention and resolve to do something according to the saying of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam): "When one of you is concerned about an affair…" Then he should turn over towards Allah with heart, humiliation and submission. Third – After the completion of two rakaahs prayer (i.e. after the salaam) particular for Istikharah, he should make the following supplication and it should be born in minds that it is necessary to stick to this specific Du’aa: Translation ’O Allah, I seek Your counsel by Your knowledge and I seek Your assistance by Your Power and I ask You from Your immense favor, for verily you are able while I am not, and verily You know and I do not, and You are the knower of the unseen. O Allah if You know this affair is to be good for me in relation to my religion, my life and end (or he said my present and my future), then decree and facilitate it for me and bless me with it. And if You know this affair to be detrimental for me concerning my religion, my life and end (or he said my present and my future), then remove it form me and remove me from it and decree for me what is good wherever it be and make me satisfied with it." Fourth – He should have a strong assurance in his Lord and truthful reliance upon his Lord, being sure of guidance, waiting for the answer. Fifth – Avoid all obstacles that prevent the supplication from being answered Al-Istikharah is a Du’aa, so one should adhere to the etiquettes of Du’aa and avoid all obstacles and barriers that prevent a Du’aa from being answered, they being: - (a) Haraam Earnings (b) Requesting something, which is sinful or involves oppression (c) Abandoning the act of enjoining what is good and forbidding the evil (d) Exceeding the limits in making Du’aa (e) Being heedless of Allah and the Deen in the times of ease (f) Contradicting some Shari’ah Ruling And the prohibited times are, as Uqbah bin Naaf’ee (radhi allahu anhu) said: "There are three times in which Allah’s Messenger (sallalahu alaihi wa-sallam) forbade us to pray or bury our dead; when the sun begins to rise until it is fully up, when the sun is at its highest at midday till it passes over the meridian, and when the sun draws near to setting until it sets." [Saheeh Muslim (eng. trans) vol.2, no.1811] What should be done after al-Istikharah?
After performing the Istikharah prayer, one should firmly resolve to do that which he thinks to be correct, after placing the trust in Allah, the Al-Knower: "Then when you have taken the decision, put your trust in Allah." [Surah Ali-Imraan (3): 159] "And whosever puts his trust in Allah, He is sufficient for him…" [Surah at-Talaaq (65): 3] One should be truthful in his intention, sincere in the actions in which he sought the guidance, while he does that which appears to him correct without hesitation and sadness, sluggishness or fear, whether his heart is happy or not about the affair, because the affairs are not determined by the constriction of the heart, but rather it is determined by Allah granting and making the affair easy for him. As He says:"And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not." [Surah Baqarah (2): 216] And since, none of the creation whoever it may be, can prevent good if Allah intends it for him, nor can they turn away evil if Allah – the Most High – decreed it for him: "And if Allah touches you with hurt, there is none who can alleviate but He; and if He intends any good for you, there is none who can repel His favor, which he causes to reach whomsoever of His slave He wills. And He is Most Forgiving, Most Merciful." [Surah Yunus (10): 107] Question – Does the one making al-Istikharah also seek the council of People (Istikharah)? Answer – Yes! The one making al-Istikharah should also seek help from those whom he knows to be righteous and who can give the appropriate advice and it makes no difference whether this is before al-Istikharah or after it. For there is no contradiction whatsoever between al-Istikharah and Istiharah (seeking the advice of the people) because al-Istikharah is from Allah and Istiharah is from the people. Istikharah is an action based on one’s Eeman whereas Istiharah is an action whereby one seeks means – so there is no contradiction between two. Reliance is an action of the heart, whereas, seeking means is an action of the limbs, which Allah created in order to achieve goals, and this – combining actions of the heart and the actions of the limbs – is what is legislated in the Religion of Islam. As for abandoning the means naming it to be ’Tawakkul in Allah’ – then this is something, which Islam rejects and it is not reliance upon Allah. As for depending on means besides Allah is Shirk with regards to these means. Allah says in the Qur’aan: "And consult them in the affair. Then once you have taken the decision, put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)" [Surah ali-Imran (3): 159] So the Most High – in this verse, combines both seeking the means, which is taking consultation, and the obligation to have reliance on Allah, which is an action of eeman and from the complete characteristics of a believer. And similar is reported in a narration, when a man asked him (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) concerning his riding beast; should he tie it and rely upon Allah, or should he leave it and rely upon Allah? So the Prophet answered him saying: "Tie it and rely upon Allah" [At-Tirmishee, Ibn Khuzaimah, at-Tabari and others] And this was the practice of Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam), he used to consult his Companions (radhi allahu anhu) and even sometimes his wives – so he sought their counsel at the Battle of Uhud, he sought their counsel at the battle of Ditch and he also sought their counsel with regards to the prisoners of the Battle of Badr and in many other situations. Consequently, the stages of al-istikharah are: - 1. Being concerned about an affair 2. Making al-Istikharah and asking for advice 3. Reliance upon Allah 4. Then the one making al-Istikharah acting according to what he considers to be correct Is Istikharah related to Dreams?
The idea behind performing al-Istikharah is that the matter is determined by Allah making the affair easy and Him granting it. So, having a dream or not makes no difference, rather if assumed that one has a dream how does he know that the dream is from the Most Merciful or from shaytaan or from talking souls: Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: "Dreams are of three types; glad tidings from Allah, whispering of the soul or frightening thoughts from Shaytaan" [Saheeh al-Bukharee (eng. trans.) vol.8, no.595 and Saheeh Muslim (eng. trans) vol.4, no.6404] Unfortunately, contrary to the instructions of the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam), Muslims today depend entirely on the prayer to make their decisions. That is they make the prayer and supplication prior to making any decision, and rely on dreams to provide the answers for them. The prayer is often repeated before sleeping for a set number of days and dream books are consulted to interpret symbols in their dreams. All this has no basis in the methodology taught by the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam). However, this is not to say that a good dream may not be acted upon as a confirmation of a decision, about which istikharah was made. What are the Affairs in which one can make al-Istikharah?
One can make al-Istikharah only in those affairs that are allowed (Mubah: action which neither brings about reward if performed nor brings about punishment if abandoned) like worldly affairs for e.g. traveling, the modes of transport, business dealings, trade, places and time in which one has a choice etc. Al-Istikharah cannot be made in obligatory, recommended, disliked and forbidden actions, since obligatory actions are forbidden to leave and forbidden actions are obligatory to leave, for e.g. performing obligatory Hajj, abandoning of alcohol or other acts of disobedience. Rather, he can make al-Istikharah in those obligatory and recommended affairs in which there is a choice e.g. marriage is obligatory but since he has a choice with respect to whom he should marry, he may seek guidance (i.e. perform al-Istikharah) with regard to a particular women, and a women may seek guidance in regard to a particular man – but not in marriage itself. Also al-Istikharah can be made if one is faced with two obligatory duties or conflicting recommended duties, e.g. the case of marriage and Hajj for the one who only possesses enough money for either of them. Thus, al-Istikharah can be made in all these affairs, whether one is sure of them or not, since the purpose of al-Istikharah is asking Allah, the guidance and ability to do something, and having resolve to do something does not contradict making al-Istikharah. Question: Can al-Istikharah be made in those affairs whose result is known? Answer: Yes, since Allah alone knows the reality of Affairs and their consequences and the saying of Allah should be enough for us: "And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not." [Surah al-Baqarah (2): 216] Du’aa Prescribed After Being granted that which he has asked for The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: "If one of you buys a maid-servant then he should say: ’O Allah, I ask of You her good and the goodness within her and the goodness that You have made her inclined towards. And I take refuge with You from the evil within her and the evil that You have made her inclined towards, and he should ask for blessings. And if one of you buys a camel then he should touch the top of its hump and supplicate for blessings and say likewise." [Aboo Dawood v.2, no. 2155, Ibn Majah and al-Haakim] And in another narration: "If one of you marries a woman or buys a maid-servant, he should touch her forelock and mention Allah’s Name – the Mighty and Sublime – and pray for the blessings." Therefore, it is prescribed to put one’s hand on the front of what he has acquired, mentioning Allah’s Name and then praying for blessing with the afore-mentioned Du’aa, and likewise on similar matters such as buying a car and other than that. FOOTNOTES [1] Nawafil prayer like al-Istikharah, solah entering the masjid are generally not allowed in times of prohibition. However, the scholars differ regarding this issue. Therefore, if one were to leave performing Solat al-Istikharah in theses prohibited times, then that would thereby avoid difference of opinion and it would be more helpful to him in attaining tranquility, since verily, the Prophet (sallalahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: "Leave that which you doubt for that which you do not doubt" [Ahmad, at-Tirmidzi, an-Nisa’ee]
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Thursday, March 27, 2008
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Current mood:  good
Ultimate Victory will be for the believers but only after succeeding in Trials
Allah will test every believing slave according to his level of faith Allah said: "Alif-Laam-Meem. Do people think that they will be left alone because they say: ’We believe,’ and will not be tested?" [Surah al-Ankabuut (29): 1-3] This is an admonition in the form of a question, meaning that Allah will inevitably test His believing servants according to their level of faith, as it is recorded in the authentic Hadith. The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said: "The people most severely tested are the Prophets, then the righteous, then the next best and the next best. A man will be tested in accordance with the degree of his religious commitment; the stronger his religious commitment, the stronger his test." [Tuhfat al-Ahwadhi (7:78)] But those who are not believers will not escape such trials and tests, for ahead of them lies a severe punishment as Allah says: "Or think those who do evil deeds that they can outstrip (escape) Us? Evil is that which they judge!" [Surah al-Ankabuut (29): 4] "Allah will not leave the believers in the state in which you are now, until He distinguished the wicked from the good." [Surah ali-Imran (3): 179] Allah allows a calamity to happen, and during this calamity His friends become known and His enemies exposed, the patient believer recognized and the sinful hypocrite revealed. "Nor will Allah disclose to you the secrets of the Unseen." [Surah ali-Imran (3): 179] meaning you do not have access to Allah’s Knowledge of His creation so that you can distinguish between the believer and the hypocrite, except by signs that Allah uncovers. Even Previous Nations were tried and tested with calamities and oppression from the Kuffur but the Final Victory is always for the believers In an authentic Hadith, it is reported that Khabbab Ibn al-Aratt said: "We said: ’O Rasulullah! Why do you not invoke Allah to support us? Why do you not supplicate to Allah for us?’ He said: "Among the people who came before you, there was a man who was taken and put into a hole dug for him in the earth, then a saw was put on his head and he was cut into two pieces, and an iron comb was used to tear the flesh from his bones, but this still did not turn him away from his religion." [Reported by al-Bukhari, see Fath al-Baaree, (12/315)]
He (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) then said: "By Allah! This matter (religion) will spread (or expand) by Allah until the traveler leaves San’aa to Hadramat fearing nothing except Allah and the wolf that may attack his sheep." [See Fath al-Baree (7/165)] Allah says: "Or think you that you will enter Paradise without such (trials) as came to those who passed away before you? They were afflicted with severe poverty and ailments and were so shaken that even the Messenger and those who believed along with him said: ’When (will come) the help of Allah?’ Yes! Certainly, the help of Allah is near!" [Surah al-Baqarah (2): 214] Meaning that you will be tested like the nations before you were tested and tried with illness, pain, disasters and hardships so much that they pleaded (to Allah) for victory against the enemies and invoked Him for aid and deliverance from their hardships and trials. Allah says in Surah ali-Imran, "Many similar ways (and mishaps of life) were faced [by nations (by believers and disbelievers) that have passed away] before you, so travel through the earth, and see what was the end of those who denied. This is a plain statement for mankind, a guidance and instruction for the Muttaqun. So do not become weak, nor be sad, and you will be triumphant if you are indeed believers. If a wound has touched you, be sure a similar wound has touched the others. And so are the days, that We give to men by turns, that Allah may know (test) those who believe, and that He may take martyrs from among you. And Allah likes not the wrongdoers. And that Allah may test those who believe and destroy the disbelievers. Do you think that you will enter Paradise without Allah knowing those of you who fought (in His cause) and knowing those who are the patient?" [Surah ali-Imran (3): 142] These verses were revealed after the defeat of Muslims in the battle of Uhud. Allah states to His believing servants who suffered losses in the battle of Uhud that similar mishaps were faced by the previous nations who followed Prophet, they too suffered losses. However, the good end was theirs and ultimate defeat was for the disbelievers. This is why Allah said: "so travel through the earth and see what was the end of those who denied. This is a plain statement for mankind." The Qur’aan contains the news of past, it explains the true reality of things and narrates how the previous nations suffered at the hands of their enemies. Then Allah comforts the believers saying, "So do not become weak," because of what you suffered for surely the ultimate victory and triumph will be yours, O believers. If you suffered injuries and some of you were killed, then your enemies also suffered injuries and fatalities. And at times, out of His Wisdom, Allah allows the enemy to overcome you, although the final good end will be for the believers so that those who are patient and those who gladly offer their lives seeking Allah’s Pleasure may be known. Allah’s statement, "and destroy the disbelievers" testifies that the disbelievers who transgress and commit aggression will be led to ultimate destruction, extermination, perishing and dying out. Then Allah says, "Do you think that you will enter Paradise without Allah knowing those of you who fought (in His cause) and knowing those who are the patient?" meaning you will not earn Paradise until you are tested with such hardships. When the Emperor of Rome asked Abu Sufyan, "Did you fight him (Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi was-sallam)?" He said: "Yes" Heracles said: "What was the outcome of the warfare between you?" Abu Sufyan replied: "Sometimes we lose and sometimes he loses." He said: "Such is the case with Prophets, they are tested, but the final victory is theirs." [Fath al-Baree (9: 25)] See how Allah consolidates His Prophet during his (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) trials, when the Quraysh disbelieved in his Message, mocked and gathered together against him. Allah explained: "And how many a Prophet have We sent among the men of old. And never came there a Prophet to them but they used to mock at him. Then We destroyed men stronger (in power) than these and the example of the ancient has passed away." [Surah az-Zukhruf (43): 6-8] meaning ’We destroyed those who disbelieved in the Messengers, and they were stronger in power than those who disbelieve in you, O Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam). And We made them a lesson for those disbelievers who came after them, that they would suffer the same end as them, as also in the verse, "And We made them a precedent, and an example to later generations." [Surah az-Zukhruf (43): 56] Allah also explained in Surah Ghaafir (also known as Surah al-Mu’min )that it is His Sunnah to humiliate and destroy the disbelievers at the hands of believers, even if the disbelievers were more in number and strength and the believers only a handful. "Have they not traveled through the earth and seen what was the end of those before them? They were more in number than them and mightier in strength and in the traces in the land; yet all they used to earn availed them not. Then when their Messengers came to them with clear proofs, they were glad (and proud) with that which they had of the knowledge (of worldly things). And that at which they used to mock, surrounded them. So when they saw Our punishment, they said: ’We believe in Allah and reject (all) that we used to associate with Him as (His) partners.’ Then their faith could not avail them when they saw Our punishment. (Like) This has been the way of Allah in dealing with His servants. And there the disbelievers lost utterly." [Surah Ghaafir (40): 82-85] A good example can be given of Musa (alaihi as-salaam) and his enemy; Fir’aun, who had much more strength and men than Musa (alaihi as-salaam). But Allah destroyed his army and drowned them all, and Fir’aun said as he was drowning, "I believe that none has the right to be worshiped but He Whom the Children of Israel believe, and I am one of the Muslims." [Surah an-Anfaal (10): 90] but Allah said: "Now (you believe) while you refused to believe before, and you were one of the corrupters." [Surah an-Anfaal (10): 91] Thus, "That was the way of Allah in the case of those who passed away of old, and you will not find any change in the way of Allah." [Surah Ahzaab (33): 62] Therefore, the believers are required to trust Allah and His Promise that He will surely humiliate and destroy the disbelievers who commit oppression against the believers. But until then, the believers should persevere with patience in their trials because victory will only come after succeeding in these trials. The Sahabah (radhi allahu anhum) were severely tortured by the disbelievers. They were forced to migrate leaving behind their family members and relatives and all their wealth and belongings. But they persisted in their Faith bore the oppression of the Kuffar in Makkah for ten years and then the hardships of migration to al-Madinah, after which, Allah compensated them with the better in this world; He made them victorious, gave them power throughout the land and caused them to rule over the people who had forced them to migrate - they became governors and rulers, and each of them became a leader of the pious. Allah tells us that His reward for the Muhajirin (migrants) in the Hereafter is greater than which He gave them in this world. He said: "and as for those who emigrated for the Cause of Allah, after suffering oppression, We will certainly give them goodly residence in this world, but indeed the reward of the Hereafter will be greater, if they but knew! (They are) those who remained patient (in this world for Allah’s sake) and put their trust in their Lord" [Surah an-Nahl (16): 41-42] Conclusion: Every person who claims to be a true Muslim will be tested and tried by Allah. These trials can be in the form of starvation, famine or oppression from the disbelievers. When these trials take place, the believer is expected to succeed in these tests by practicing Sabar (patience), Tawakkal (trust in Allah that He will help him and support the religion) and with Istiqamah (steadfastness) on his Deen because Allah does not grant Paradise or victory without Sabar, Tawakkal and Istiqamah on the part of the believers. One should also not deem that those who do not accept Islam will be saved from all afflictions and calamities because the respite given to them in this world will lead them to an eternal destruction in Hell-Fire! Whereas the believers who are tested with calamities that are very insignificant compared to the punishment of the Hereafter will be granted eternal pleasure in Paradise where there will be no trace of any hardship or suffering.
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Monday, March 17, 2008
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Current mood:  calm
Category: Sports
I think everyone has heard of the phrase ’life isn’t fair’. Well we’ve heard that said time and again, and I know most of us have even uttered it ourselves. Truthfully speaking, I was that person too (when I was young and ignorant back then). But as I got older, and to a certain extent: wiser! it actually got me thinking on the whole fairness issue. And the more I dug into it, the more I disagree with the whole notion.
Here’s what I have to say. everyone has their own agendas, whether they realise it or not that’s beside the point. And as far as being impartial, I think anyone who thinks that life’s not fair per se; are the ones who are selfish and ignorant themselves. Because (to say the least), if that was ever the case: in actuality life isn’t fair to everyone equally. Am I right or am I right huh? But do you hear every single person on earth screaming it out loud? You tell me! For a fact, these claims are something that is said purely out of selfishness, ignorance and stupidity. The fact is, if you really know your whole purpose in life, and to a larger scale, the purpose of your creation. Then the whole issue wouldn’t even have risen up in the first place. That’s what I believe to be the case. I know I’m being vague in giving a definitive answer or an explanation to what is actually is the purpose of my existence. That is something you’ll have to look for yourself. But in my humble opinion, if you have it in you, the will to find the answer to the purpose of your existence and creation. I’m sure you yourself would say that: life is fair in all fairness. The fact that you’re alive and breathing right now while reading this, says it all. And like I’ve said previously: everyone has his or her own agenda(s). Right? And when you add selfishness and ignorance into the mix, in regards to the whole issue: well… you do the math. Lest you forget the reason you’re here in the first place, Life will forever be unfair to you. So to anyone who believes that life has not been fair to you, the real truth is: you’re the ones who have not been fair to life itself. Ironic isn’t it.. I’ll give you a hint: Quran 51:56
"Strange are the ways of a believer for there is good in every affair of his and this is not the case with anyone else except in the case of a believer for if he has an occasion to feel delight he thanks [Allah], thus there is a good for him in it, and if he gets into trouble and shown resignation (and endures it patiently), there is a good for him in it." - Muslim
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