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Ryan Cox


Last Updated: 11/21/2009

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Gender: Male
Status: Married
Age: 22
Sign: Aries

City: Lexington
State: Kentucky
Country: US
Signup Date: 3/7/2005

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Sunday, August 09, 2009 

Current mood:  contemplative
You should listen to this song. It's one of my favorites, I believe.

Carousels -- mewithoutYou

On a bus ride into town, I wondered out loud, "Why am I going to town?"
As I looked around at the billboards and the stores I thought, "Why do I look around?"
And I kissed the filthy ground...the first dry spot I found...
I didn't have to wonder why I was laying down.

Before long I was too cold...took a bus back to the station,
I found a letter left by a pay phone with no return contact
And it read like a horn blown by some sad angel,
"Bunny, it was me...it was me who let you down"
It was the shyest attempt I'd ever seen at conversation.

But if I didn't have You as my guide, I'd still wander lost in Sinai,
Counting the plates of cars from out-of-state,
How I could jump in their path as they hurry along!
And You surround me, You're pretty but You're all I can see
Like a thick fog...
If there was no way into God,
I would never have laid in this grave of a body for so long.

And St. Cyril's fair always came through the first week of September
But it's already the 19th...and there's no sign of it...
Yet I have a hard time remembering all the things I should remember
And a hard time forgetting all the things that I was supposed to forget.
And, Christ, when You're ready to come back,
Then I think I'm ready for You to come back;
But if You want to stay wherever exactly it is You are,
That's okay, too...it's, it's really none of my business.

And if I didn't have You as my guide, I'd still wander lost in Sinai
Or down by the tracks watching trains go by
To remind me: there are places that aren't here.
And I had a well but all the water left,
So I'll go ask Your forgiveness with every breath,
And if there was no way into God,
I would never have laid in this grave of a body...so long, dear.
Currently listening:
Catch for Us the Foxes
By mewithoutYou
Release date: 2008-01-29
Friday, January 09, 2009 

Current mood:  discontent
i want to sit
downtown in a coffee shop
and write my heart out.
life's just too crazy; too much running and yelling and trying to earn the money to pay the bills to keep the cars and houses and yards that nobody ever needed in the first place. i want peace, and rest, and renewal. i need to leave this place and do something new. though we know the restless heart can't win, still we try anyway, frustrating ourselves with our silly dreams and grand schemes and realizing we can't fool ourselves any longer into thinking that this is how we thought it would end; this is how we thought we would end. we've always had it wrong. maybe there's a bit of artist in us all that won't let us be content with just existing.
i need a break from life.
Matthew 11:28
Currently listening:
Cities
By Anberlin
Release date: 2007-02-20
Thursday, January 08, 2009 

Current mood:  melancholy

I saw you again
I turned and looked and there you stood
My eyes closed for a moment
I blinked them open
And then you saw me
We exchanged awkward glances
Smiled our little smiles
And left each other again forever
But as you turned I looked again
And shed a single tear

Thursday, January 08, 2009 
Myspace now lets you blog from your iPhone. Woo...
Monday, November 10, 2008 
I choose to write now
Not knowing why I do so
Or what I wish to say
Thinking mostly of the past
And how we came to be
And how being came to us
Struggling to understand
How none of us can change...
A single thing that passes us by
Leaning forward in strained stride
To run so fast to leave
The memories behind
Seeking to undo
Or wishing we could
Change the past
Yet... time stands unmoved
By those who would make it
Cough up its dead
Cold hands
Turning slowly
Around and around
Again he says
We lived our lives in search of love
But now I find I never got to know you
And she replies
That is all we knew
When God was our only friend
Monday, November 10, 2008 
gathered among friends
laughter and tears
joy interwoven with pain
and a flood of memories
that make me feel
young again
as when we were new to this world
Wednesday, October 15, 2008 
if feelings could point the way to light
then i would shatter the darkness with my heart.
to find wisdom in the knowledge of what is right
and listen to what time alone can speak
is the wealth of those who know the truth
-- only found by those who seek it.
Sunday, May 18, 2008 

I'm pulling up old posts here, commenting on them if I feel like it; explaining stuff sometimes, or just remembering.

Have fun :)

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christmas eve finds me pondering the last few years of my life, wondering and wandering down the trails and trials that have marked and made my life what it has become. peppered with obstacles and riddled with pain; my journey has been far from easy. and i can sit here and tell you with all honesty that the one thing, the one voice, the one way this is all found in truth to be what we have is by God. the one thing, if you will, that i could never let go of only because he refused to let go of me. even with my naive assumptions of pretentious, meritous deeds that i would (imagine myself saying i would -- with the abilities of one who can only convince himself of what he cannot) do, when they inevitably failed he cared as much as if i had merely stood still. and he grasped me by the hand and led me forward where the wind could merely buffet and not kill, and the tempestuous rain could fall, yet not chill to the ice that would freeze the blood of the strongest man. and so i was saved from far worse, healed through the agony. and even now i am being made whole again. for that i owe him all. he is always near. so do not mistake him when he calls to you. do not think yourself alone when you cry yourself to sleep. the God who brought sight to the blind and formed the very universe can still weep with the fallen. and so i tell you that all is not lost. the broken shall be made perfect. that which was held dead will rise again. God reigns; God reigns and none other. he will not fail -- he cannot. he will not abandon those who call on him. there is always renewal. there is always hope. 

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this was written from the perspective of someone without the hope of a relationship with a Savior to pull him from his broken relationship. odd how familiar it can be if don't allow a relationship and friendship with Christ to pick us up an carry us through to the end of our difficulties.

sleepinging alone
one more night
only pain can make you real
sitting beside you in my mind
one last time
but you walk away and leave me
to fight the rain
always alone
but never forgetting
left without a choice
my heart bleeds the hours away
intentions not what they seemed
i can't see you're crying too
but i feel it just the same
even though you'll never know
and now
passion spent
words of broken remorse
falling silently in the darkness
i'll leave my love
in the dust with the blood
from a heart that was crushed by your lies and betrayal
is this what you wanted?
it no longer means
actions
forever lost to the skies
tomorrow ends before it began
our eyes slowly open
a single tear to shatter the world
a single tear to shatter the world

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one night when I was praying for a friend, God told me He had "bound the ends". I had no idea what it meant until i saw her life unfolding before me, and realized God had promised to carry her through until the darkness was past, and He knew how it would end. so i wrote this in class a few days later. not great, not good at all really, but i somehow like that it is imperfect.

Darkness hides the fear inside
Wind rustles the leaves along the midnight road
Screams of the undead echo around
Bringing memories of the loss still so close
The cord of time and love sliced in half
Pain flows like blood from the sharpened knife
Frayed edges hang like Death
But I heard Him tell you He has bound the ends

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this was written when i was dealing with the pain and difficulties of life in ways i had never before experienced, and it was all i could do to hold on to the coat tails of God and feel like i was being dragged headfirst through the worst life has to offer. it deals with giving in to temptation and living a life of sin and crawling back to Christ to let him redeem us.

Held within the grasp of fate
Lost inside this darkened state
Choices made, reasoned mind
We thought we knew the truth this time
Face the lies, take the blame
You are the one who made this game
Beyond the edge of reasoned light
You fell from grace into the night
Whores and lovers, saints and fools
Half-lived morals bend the rules
No wrong or right, just good intention
Hard lines and bright eyes lost to mention
All fall apart like broken pride
Yet with sunrise, surrender, renewed we rise

It's me, it's you, it's everyone who has fallen and been trampled to pieces by life. Everyone who has ever given themselves away and woken up one day to find that they've got nothing left. That they're not who they were, and they don't know how they got this way.

...It's never been easy for me to trust anyone, and when people continually lie to me and break the trust I worked so hard to give to them it makes it even more difficult. God knows the effort it takes me to trust anyone for anything. And being let down so often makes it hard to even trust God sometimes, because I wonder why he should be any different than many of my friends. But then I remember that He's never let me down before, even when I've cussed him out for letting something happen that I didn't understand and thought I couldn't take. He's always pulled me through. So he is the one in whom I place my trust.

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i'm finally tired. bedtime. yay/// ;)

Thursday, April 17, 2008 

Coward's heart 
A serpent's tongue
Stand to face what you've outrun
Fear of death, fear of pain
Bound to all you took in vain
No more lies, no regrets
Sever ties and hollow debt
Open eyes, live to learn
Or watch your blessed temple burn

Raise your glass to death
Not one second left

Wake the lifeless, die to fight this
Stand beside me, storm the gates of Hell
Wake the lifeless, die to fight this
Stand beside me, storm the gates of Hell
Storm the gates of Hell

Tuesday, April 15, 2008 
i woke up crying this morning. im still not alright. i dont think i will be for quite some time. i guess the hardest part of things for me were the promises that were made and kept only with so much hesitation that i had to wonder if they were just empty words said to make me hear what i wanted to. i felt like i was being chosen second instead of first like i was promised. and that took me back to how things used to be, and its still hurting now. i know its making things worse for me that i cant talk to her right now or see her. everything is making me feel detached from her. the fact that i drove over there and sat outside praying for nearly 4 hours... when i was expecting her to tell her parents she was leaving and that she loved them... that was really hard as well. i do feel betrayed by her, i dont know why. it doesnt make a whole lot of sense to me right now, nothing does. but i guess i felt like if everything she had told me was true she wouldnt have put me through everything she did and she would have been able to just leave. irrational maybe. im grieveing. tahts really it i think. the loss of something, and im trying to find out what it is thats lost. just trusting god right now. just trusting him because i feel again like hes the only one i can trust.