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Gender: Female
Status: Single
Age: 35
Sign: Capricorn

State: NEW YORK
Country: US
Signup Date: 12/31/2005

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Wednesday, September 20, 2006 

Current mood:  contemplative
Category: Life

I think being single has payed off for me today.  I received a phone call on my cell phone with no number.  I decided to answer it because they had already called once.  They won't quit calling until you answer and they won't leave you a message...  telemarketers that is.  I am on the "do not call list" and on top of that, I have heard that telemarketers are not supposed to call cell phone numbers because it costs you minutes.  Anyway, when I answered the phone, they asked, "Can I speak to the male in your household?"  I happily replied, "there is no male in our household."  And that was that. 

On the otherhand, I am wondering if someone is trying to figure out if I live with a man.  Maybe they are stalking me?  Maybe they are planning to rob me?  Well, they can have my crap.  It's not worth much!  They would surely be disappointed. 

So, should I be concerned about this phone call, or should I simply rejoice in the fact that I probably avoided a telemarking call? 

Monday, September 18, 2006 

Current mood:  restless
There I was sitting in a small waiting area in a fushia bridesmaid dress that was a few sizes too big.  I was waiting to get fitted for my dress for my best friend's wedding.  Two of the semstresses didn't come to work that day, so my wait was two hours!  I was in bridesmaid hell in the midst of David's Bridal! I was surrounded by happy brides-to-be and their mothers, grandmothers, sisters, friends...you name it...all in a tizzy.  All around me I heard voices of chatty women with "ohhs" and "ahhs" and screams of joy.  I thought I might break out in hives! Next to me was a young and very thin bride and her mother. She hadn't even graduated from college yet, and there I sat, in my 30's with no husband, no engagement ring, no boyfriend even.  It's hard to feel good about that when EVERYONE around is truly on the brink of marriage!  I just can't get into the excitement of a wedding.  I didn't ask, "can I see the ring?"...Like all the other brides waiting to get fitted did. I really didn't care!  But I had to stay there and do my duty.  I am normally happily single.  I don't want to settle just to say I am "married."  But you can't help but feeling like the odd man out when you are surrounded by a flock of future wives!  I just kept thinking, this has got to be every single woman's nightmare!  ...But I survived!