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There is a feeling that many of us long for and yet it seems to often aloud us. It is the feeling of being complete. We search for work and relationships that will make us feel full, but we fail to realize is that only we can fill ourselves up. What we long for is not about the external, but the internal.

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We are programmed to stay in search of. We are made to believe that we need the relationship or the job to be complete. We spend our time and most our lives trying to be what society considers complete, and yet still empty. 

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The problem is that while we are working so hard on the outside we are forgetting about the inside. We are forgetting to nourish our Spirits. We are forgetting to search for and do the things that make up happy. Not the things that we think we are supposed to do, but the things that we want to do, and enjoying doing. 

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No, we are not all fortunate enough to make a living at the things that we enjoy doing, but if we can continue to do at least a little of what we enjoy there would be a lot less emptiness and more feelings of satisfaction.

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Are you taking the time to fill your Spiritual tank???

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Love and blessings in divine order,

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Stacye

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Song of the day: “Fill Me Up”   - Steve Windwood....

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CD: Junction Seven

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There are many times that we allow our desires to out weigh our judgment.  We can feel and see that things are not right, but yet  we allow our desire to paint the picture prettier than it really is. The trick in life is to remember we can’t allow our desires to be come obsessions especially in relationships.

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If you pay close attention I believe that a person tells you a lot about themselves  in the first 10 minutes with their words and their actions. The kind of things that make a difference as to whether or not you should continue on with a relationship or not. The problem is that most of us don’t pay attention. We get caught up in the fairytale of what we hope can be. We continue on the journey until one day the fairytale becomes a nightmare and we are shocked that things have gone so wrong.

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 Many times we look back on a situation in shock, and with our feelings hurt when in actuality the red flags were waving in front of us the whole time, and if we were to tell the story of our journey towards what we thought  we wanted so badly the red flags will stand out.

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Love is not a myth, and having a great relationship is possible with the right person, but it is important to pay attention. If something doesn’t feel right then it probably isn’t. You may have to kiss a few frogs to get to the prince or princess, but it is better to take your time getting to the fairytale, than to be trapped in a nightmare.

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Are you using your judgment or being guided by your desires??

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Song of the day: “Don't Let Me Be Lonely Tonight”  - The Isley Brothers            ....

CD:  3 + 3           

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Keesha, Kimberly , Eric, Charles, Shelly, Ty, Marsha, Adrienne, Shontay, Rosaline, Jo, jonee, Mauricette, rich, Kay, Marlies, Shakira, john, Gary, Maggy, Austin, A.J. Dai Dai.

Announcing
The release of my new book
It's All In How You Look At It
(Thoughts and Questions About Life)....

This song is from the upcoming album "The Evolution To living In Truth" , and available on Itunes.

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We have all experienced a painful situation. An interaction between two or more people that seems not only unforgivable, but unforgettable. Every moment in our life is an experience, and whether it is pleasant or unpleasant it is a memory that we will always have.  The trick is learning how to turn every experiences into a positive and using it to your advantage.

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We often feel like something is happening to us, but really we are having an experience. No matter what is going on it is important to remember to have the experience, learn from the experience and move forward. The biggest mistake that most of us make is that we hold on so tightly to negative experiences allowing them to interfere in our future experiences. We build a wall around our self and heart not necessarily stopping positive experiences, but definitely decreasing the number and frequency of positive experiences.

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Life is messy, it’s work, and at the same time it can be can exciting and fun if you allow it to be. Life can never be lived to the fullest if you hold on the negative things that happen especially in relationships and allow them to get in the way.  When negative things happen in a relationship you have to remember that you are having an experience. You’re having an experience to learn from not to put up a wall or to run and hide from future hurt and pain. The experience is for you to learn from, not just so that you can better handle a difficult situation should it arise again, but to be able to handle your relationships in the present and future better.

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Whatever has happened, has happened and you shouldn’t hold onto it, nor should you make someone else suffer for something that they didn’t do. You have to remember that each moment is a new experience, and you don’t want your walls blocking your blessings.   There is nothing perfect about life, but the imperfections.

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Can you appreciate life’s imperfection to make sure you don’t block you blessings?

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Love and blessings in divine order,

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Stacye

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Song of the day:  “When Did You Know?”  - Stacye Branché

CD – “The Evolution To Living In Truth”

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We all have a back-story, the things that have happened to us, and the things that yes in many ways make us who we are.  No matter what has happened to us we cannot allow our circumstances to be our excuses for not being all that we can be or not doing all that we could be doing.

No ones life is perfect. No ones life is or was like what many of us have seen on television or in the movies. There are many people who have experiences abuse and neglect, but those are just experiences it doesn’t have to be who you are or what you do. Many people feel a need or desire for the love and affection that they didn’t receive, and instead of working to have a life filled with the love and affection that they desire they dwell on the past and make that there excuse for their self-destructive behavior.  Which in turn really does nothing more but make them more unhappy.

Each person has the power to seek out different, or the power to seek out the help to be different from what they have experienced.  Happiness for some take a little more work than for others.  The first step to finding happiness is to not look outside yourself for happiness, but in appreciating who you are. Because, as long as you continue to look outside of yourself to find happiness you will never find happiness. The second thing is to remember that life is complicated and it takes work.  You can’t get caught up judging yourself by and comparing yourself to the things that you see. You have to find the things that bring you joy and make you comfortable, and sometimes that means separating yourself from everything that you’ve known to find the things that better suite you.

Are you allowing your past and circumstances to be your excuse??

Love and blessings in divine order,

Stacye

Song : “Be Yourself”  - Debra Laws

CD : Very Special

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We live in an interesting time. It seems that there are more single people than ever before, but the funny thing is they don’t all choose to be alone. The lonely like most desire to be in a relationship, but things get in the way.

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 We all have some sort of vision of how we think a relationship should come to us and what it should be like.  Many times our preconceived notions of how things should be gets in our way and blocks the blessings of what could be great.   

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There is no road map to life or love, but we have to walk into the unknown and believe that we will end up exactly where we should be.  Nothing is meant to last forever, and the experience of one date or a relationship that last Thirty years is just that an experience whether it is pleasant or unpleasant, and it is in many cases the experience and lesson that we need to help us move forward in our life. That is not to say that when every red flag in the world pops up you shouldn’t pay attention, but that you should be more open even when things aren’t exactly as you think they should be.

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So, remove your armor and allow your heart to breathe and live not just in the searching and finding of a relationship, but in the being in a relationship as well.  Your prince or princess may not show up on the white horse or wearing the glass slippers, but it doesn’t mean that they don’t have them at home. Sometimes things aren’t always obvious or easy, and you may have to actually walk to the end of the rainbow for the gold.

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Are you open to love or are you blocking your happiness??

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Love and blessings in divine order,

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Stacye

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Song of The day: “When I Find You Love” -             Jean Carne            ....

CD: The Best Of Jean Carne                        ....

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Each day is chance to do it not just get things done or an opportunity to attempt something again, but the opportunity to do the very best that we can.

We all have hopes and desires for ourselves, and sometimes there doesn’t seem to be enough time in the day, week, or month to do all of the things that we want or need to do, but each day is a chance to accomplish those things. Because at the end of the day the only obstacle you can ever really have is you.

It is easy to get caught up with all the excuses,  to procrastinate, or to blame someone else for you not having something, but the easiest way to get things done is to be clear about what it is that you need or want to do.  Everything starts with an idea followed by an intention. If you say that you have something that you want to accomplish like new job, a new home, a new body, or a better relationship than it is not about talking about it, but being about what it is that you want, and each day you should have a window of time whether it is 5 minutes or 5 hours set aside that you are working on your goal.  That could be praying on it or researching about it as long as you are doing something to help move you closer to what you desire.

You may not be in formal school anymore, but you are always in the school of life. There will always be some form of studying and work to be done for you to move forward and achieve the things that you desire.

Is there some work you need to get to?

Have an amazing week!!!

Love and blessings in divine order,

Stacye

Song of the day: “Work To Do”  - The Isley Brothers

CD: The Essential Isley Brothers