I got this from Javon64's blog and I though it's amazing! I want everyone to be aware of this

Click here for Javon's page...

Author of this fantastic book:

So here we go... It was about time they got this! This will help reduce the spread of HIV in rape-infected countries. I am so FOR this...

SOUTH AFRICAN ANTI-RAPE CONDOM

Posted Apr 12th 2007 5:03PM by Angela Bronner
Filed under: AIDS: 25 Years and Counting

I was reading todays Zane blog and she came up with this text from Bill Cosby and I have to admit I can see some truth. What do you think about his thoughs?

Can't Blame White People
by Bill Cosby

They're standing on the corner and they can't speak English.
I can't even talk the way these people talk:
Why you ain't,
Where you is,
What he drive,
Where he stay,
Where he work,
Who you be...
And I blamed the kid until I heard the mother talk.
And then I heard the father talk.
Everybody knows it's important to speak English...
except these knuckleheads.
Mushmouth is what they speak!
You can't be a doctor with that kind of crap coming out of your mouth.
In fact you will never get any kind of job making a decent living.
People marched and were hit in the face with rocks to get an education,
and now we've got these knuckleheads throwing that all away.
The lower economic people are not holding up their end in this deal.
These people are not parenting.
They are buying things for kids. $500 sneakers for what?
And they won't spend $200 for Hooked on Phonics.
I am talking about these people who cry
when their son is standing there in an orange suit.
Where were you when he was 2?
Where were you when he was 12?
Where were you when he was 18?
And, how come you didn't know that he had a pistol?
And where is the father?
Or who is his father?
People putting their clothes on backward:
Isn't that a sign of something gone wrong?
People with their hats on backward,
pants down around the crack,
isn't that a sign of something?
They're walking around with their nasty underwear showing, and
holding onto their pants to keep them from falling to the ground!

Or are you waiting for Jesus to pull his pants up?
Isn't it a sign of something
when she has her dress all the way up to her panty line,
and got all types of needle piercings
going through her body?
What part of Africa did this come from?
We are not Africans.
Those people are not Africans;
they don't know a thing about Africa .
With names like Shaniqua, Taliqua and Mohammed and all of that crap, and
all of them are in jail.
Brown or black versus the Board of Education
is no longer the white person's problem.
We have got to take the neighborhood back.
People used to be ashamed.
Today a woman has eight children
with eight different 'husbands' --
or men or whatever you call them now.
We have millionaire football players
who cannot read.
We have million-dollar basketball players
who can't write two paragraphs.
We as black folks have to do a better job.
Someone working at Wal-Mart
with seven kids saying...
you are hurting us.
We have to start holding each other
to a higher standard.
We cannot blame the white people any longer.
It is not for media or anyone of this time
anymore to say whether I'm right or wrong.
It is time, ladies and gentlemen,
to look at the numbers.
Fifty percent of our children are dropping out
of high school.
Sixty percent of the incarcerated males
happen to be illiterate. There's a correlation.
Tell the media to stop asking me what I think about people who don't believe
what I'm saying or feel that I'm too harsh or feel that I'm just running my
mouth because I'm old.
Seventy percent of the teenagers pregnant happen to be African American
girls.
Don't ask me to soften my message.

Bill Cosby

He is old but he does have more experience... He is a little a little old fashion but I have to admit that he is not completly wrong. Sometimes we cannot always put the blame on somebody else...

What do you  think?

I felt like I had to share this...

So ya.  I hate workin in an office. Plus I have the privilege of having the offive with no freakin WINDOWS!!!! You dont understand how important a window is until you get none. I am looking for solutions that will help me deal with it.

Now that the sun finally starting to warm the Earth with its shiny rays, I can only get shit light from fluorescent tubes that make a steady "bzzzzz" background sound all day.  Maybe thats why I have a permanent headache from 8h30 to 5PM!

I also dislike (not to say hate), the OFFICE LIFE:

-Talkin about nothing with people you dont wanna see outside of the office:  "A lot of traffic today right George?"  "I hope its gonna be sunny this weekend!" "I got a new stapler!"      WHO CARES. I just wanna come in, do my job and get out!   Of course it would be different if I like what I was doing...

-Lunch time when everybody is askin you:  "What u eatin! Smells Good! Where did u get it from?"  Its none of of your FREAKIN biznessssssssssssssssssss!

-Everybody talkin about everybody behind there back:  "Did you see what she is wearing?" " Do you know who was the last person out of the bathroom, cause Damn!"   Say it to their FACE, cause I dont wanna hear about it!

-Even when there is random SEX TALK next to the water cooler it sucks.  I dont wanna hear about your fug face gettin some in the kitchen last night! Its already hard for me to look at you everyday dammit!

So today I found a way to illustrate how I deal with it on a daily basis...

SYSTEM 1:

Its all about thinkin. ANything else beside what u are really supposed to do.  Then its easier to react like the robot they r expecting you to be.

SYSTEM 2:

This one works better for me. But since computer man is gettin 75$ per hour, its not a everyday thing. Plus finding a virus is not always easy.

A lot of you are asking yourselves... Why this blog??

Just because its monday and  I hate this job. I am lookin for another one, but it aint easy.  I want a more challenging job, sumthin that will keep me stimulated.  Soon I tell you... SOON!

?Have YOU ever been in a office job that you hated?

?Are you right now suffering from what I mentionned above? If so tell me how u cope with it...

It's finally here....

 SPRING

Yes everybody! Tonight iz the NIGHT!

I couldnt take it anymore. The cold, the snow, no parking spot, nosexy shoes, no (insert yours here)! Really I am so happy!

PLUS

This week iz Montreal Fashion week for all the fashionistas out here!

so expect a FAHION DONTS blog soon!!!

by the way I like mika a lot: "I waannnaa be just like Grace Kelly!"

Yes. Ur beloved Sylkie is back.

I have been very busy busy busy lately, some of u have noticed! So sweet... Here are a few b4 the blog starts....?

Smurfin Smurfberries!

She has one of the best music playlist on the net! I just luv it!

Kayode

Gotta luv this guy, He is so sweet, always reminding me when its friday!

FaboLUST

My girl Faboubou! Swagg Girls Comin UP, Stay Posted!

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Ok! Enuff shoutouts for today! (luv everyone of y'all readin right now by the way)

SOOOOOOO...

U know how us women,,, we have a code, a terminology that men never seem to understand? Well I found this and it should resolve our problems...

NO NOT THIS KIND OF PROBLEMS! Girls we will never be able to pee standin up without creating a mess!

...

HERE IT GOES:

9 DEFINITION TO UNDERSTAND THE LANGUAGE OF WOMEN!

What is your 10th one?????

1. FINE:  This is the word women use to end a argument when they are right and you need to shut up. And I mean shut up QUICK!

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2. FIVE MINUTES: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour.  Five Minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

3. NOTHING: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in "fine".

 4. GO AHEAD: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

 5. LOUD SIGH: This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)

 6. THAT'S OKAY: This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. THANKS: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say: you're welcome.

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8. WHATEVER: Is a woman's way of saying *#!* YOU!

 9. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT, I GOT IT: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking, "what's wrong", for the woman's response refer to # 3.

 Men OF THE WORLD, think of all the arguments you can avoid if you just remember the terminology!

WHAT IS YOUR NUMBER 10? WHAT IS THE THING MISSING ON THIS LIST?

What is Love...

I've had this email for 2 years in my inbox now...and I just can't delete it! It is so touching and it helps me see life through more innocent eyes...

I dont know whats goin on with me lately: I just wanna share joy! I guess its true when they say that helping others helps yourself...

What does Love mean?

A group of professionals posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds: "What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love." Rebecca- age 8

When someone loves you, the way they say your name is  different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth." Billy - age 4

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."  Karl - age 5

 "Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of  your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."  Chrissy -age 6

 "Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."  Terri - age 4

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."  Danny - age 7

 "Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and  Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss"  Emily - age 8

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop  opening presents and listen."  Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,"  Nikka - age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet) "

Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."  Noelle - age 7 "

Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are  still friends even after they know each other so well."  Tommy - age 6  

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."  Cindy - age 8 

"My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don't see anyone  else kissing me to sleep at night."  Clare - age 6  

Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken."  Elaine-age 5  

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."  Chris - age 7

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."  Mary Ann - age 4

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."  Lauren - age 4  

 "When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and  little stars come out of you." (what an imagination)  Karen - age 7

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross." Mark - age 6

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget." Jessica - age 8

And the final one...

Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry"

When there is nothing left but God, that is when you find out that God is all you need....

Friday...

Damn I have been waitin for this all week! So I'm like YEAH...

But, still wanted somethin to pump me up for the weekend! So I came up with this list from an old Glamour magasine from september 2003.  I always asked myself why do I keep those papers? Its for days like this. When I need a push!

So here it is people:

14 THINGS IN LIFE NO ONE CAN TAKE AWAY FROM YOU!

(this list has been modified from it's original version and has been Sylkiefied... Thats right.)

1- All the things you learned so young that they are stuck for good! Like all 50 States in alphabetical order (well I didnt learn that I am Canadian!)

2-The ping! you felt the first time you kissed him... Mmmmmm... Emotions that you wish could last forever!

3-your BACKBONE!  WHAT

4-Your DREAM: whether it features exotic beaches or white picket fences. Mine involves a beach and green coconuts fresh from the trees

 5-Ummm... orgasms

6-Your gift for making a baby laught, a man sweat, a boss cheer... and a bartender pour you one on the house!

7-Your first memory... The one everyone swears you shouldn't be able to remember...

8-Everything you've learned from rejection letters, breakups, jobs you didnt get.

9-The knowledge that you did, in fact, live through high school and you NEVER have to go repeat it!!!    I would like... just like...  die!

10-Your ability to take pleasure in your own company, even on a Saturday night. Actually I love to watch movies by myself cause I can rewind the amount of time I want!

11-Your flaws. Who the hell is perfect? Perfect is so overrated...

12-You unique mental encyclopedia, the one that includes all comedy sketches from Dave Chapelle and full-color palette of all MAC Viva Glam glosses... Well thats just me!

13-YOUR SMILE

and finally.....

14-The fact that your legs can take you anywhere, regardless of wheter they jiggle along the way. HA!

Thats whats up....I love this

FEEL GOOD BABY!

HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND EVERYBODY!!!!!

~LOVE YOU~

Today's blog will be in french, my maternal language....

So if you really wanna know what this poem is about, try to translate it using some internet translator or sumthin cause this comes straight from my heart ?....

Merci de passer pour lire ce poème car c'est un petit quelque chose que j'ai écrit lorsque je me sentais un peu délaissée. J'ai cru que d'autres pourrait se sentir concerné alors je le partage avec vous. Je ne crois pas etre un grand poète alors soyez indulgents!

J'en ai eu des douleurs qui m'ont vraiment percé le coeur.

Sans espoir de rebattre, il a tout de meme garder sa place,

Car le sang dans mes veines et dans les tiennes symbolise la peine

Et tous ces cris poussés par nos démiurges du passé...

Jamais je n'aurais pensé qu'une telle force émanerait de moi.

Puisque j'suis seule...j'suis faible... C'est comme ca que je voyais ca!

Puis j'ai envisagé une meilleur éventualité:

Créer de notre cru une unité sans infériorité...

La vie semble si facile

Ses biens, si accesible.

Pourtant n'est ce pas futile?

Nous ne sommes pas pret a les partager.

Se donner est difficle

Lorsque on est soi-meme la cible

Comment puisse etre possible

Si on est a ce point jalousé?

Ton argent est convoité

Par toute une bande de poseur

Qui jamais n'oserons t'aider

Si il t'advenais de t'enfoncer.

Peinture par Myrtelle Chery

Artiste Montrealaise d'origine haitienne

Yes. That's how I felt this morning coming in to work yet another friday. Being very aware that I have a deadline at 5pm tonight... I decided to check my personal emails for some interresting tid bits!

Got an interresting email today from Sandy. Though I would share it...

This right here will tell you... JUST WITH THE FIRST LETTER OF YOUR NAME, what iz goin on in your head... SURPRISE!!

Do I believe it? Well not really, but they were pretty accurate about me... By the way I am the letter S! 

Does your letter match your behaviour?

Check it now... 

Does your name begin with: A
U are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action.You
mean business. With you, what you see is what you get.You have no
patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying
to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up-front
person. You often don't get hints & you ever pass any. Brains turn you
on. You must feel that your partner is! intellectually stimulating,
otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You
require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being
appreciated. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important for you.
You tend to be very Practical, & not very emotional Your choices are
very good & can only lead to trouble. You are very self satisfied &
egoistic.


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Does your name begin with: B
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined,
and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an ____expression of
the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to
pamper your mate. You are private in your ____expression of endearments,
and particular when it comes to love. You will hold off until everything
meets with your approval. You can control your appetite & feelings. You
require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to experiment.


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Does your name begin with: C
You are a very social individual, and it is important to you to have a
relationship. You require closeness and togetherness. You want the
object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking. You
see your lover as a friend and companion. You are very sensual, Needing
someone to appreciate and almost worship you. When this cannot be
achieved, you have the ability to hold out on affection until you
receive this.. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing
without.


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Does your name begin with: D
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full
Steam ahead in your suit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are
nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on. You
are highly passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement's,
sometimes possessive and jealous. You are very sharp & talented often
with sense of humour. When people bother to look deep inside they cannot
resist what they see. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual,
having a free and open attitude.
You get jealous of other people and lose your temper .


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Does your name begin with: E
Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you
have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or
you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a
companion You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good
argument once in a while-it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot,
for the challenge is more important. But once you give your heart away,
you are uncompromisingly loyal. You will fall asleep with a good book.
sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book to a lover)


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Does your name begin with: F
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You
look for the very best mate you can find. You are a flirt, yet once
committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous and privately
passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You
are a born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are a favourite fantasy past
time. You can be a very generous lover.
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Does your name begin with: G
 You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover.
You respond to a lover who is yourintellectual equal or superior, and
one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach
the peak of stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be
extremely active-never tiring out. Your duties and responsibilities take
precedence over everything else. You may have difficulty getting
emotionally close to people.
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Does your name begin with: H
You seek a mate who can enhance your zest for life ,fun & everything You
seek for. You will be very generous to your lover once you have Attained
a commitment. You are very affectionate & very strong. Your gifts are
actually an investment in your partner. Before the commitment, though,
you tend to be very careful with your every move and equally cautious in
your involvement's often as you believe that you have to look out for
yourself. You are a sensual and patient lover. You will hold off till
everything meets your full approval. You are a perfectionist, hard to
satisfy and strong in your beliefs. Not influential, you always stand
your ground. People can always count on you to stand by them in a
crisis. You are a dreamer with/ a passion for life.
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Does your name begin with: I
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated... even worshiped. You
enjoy luxury, sensuality, and pleasures of the flesh. You like necking
spend hours just touching feeling & exploring. You look for lovers who
know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur, unless
that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your
desires satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of
____expression. You bore easily and thus require adventure and change.
Your commitments don't last very long & you often tend to stray. Loyalty
is not one of your strong points. You are more sensual than sexual, but
you are sometimes downright lustful.


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Does your name begin with: J
You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy. When used for a
good cause there is nothing to stop you, except maybe that they aren't
always used for the good. (you could dance all night.) You respond to
the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the mating game.You can
carry on great romances in your head. At heart you are a roamer and need
to set out on your own every so often. You will carry on long- distance
relationships with ease. You are idealistic and need to believe in love.
You have a need to be nurtured deep within.




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Does your name begin with: K  LIKE KAYODE
You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual,
and passionate, but you do not let on to this. Only in intimate privacy
will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets down to the
nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the
trade, can play any role or any game, and take your love life very
seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to wait for the
right person to come along. You are very generous & giving, often
selfless.
You are kind-natured & sweet, which is found to be attractive by many.
You are a good friend.


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Does your name begin with: L
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a
partner is of paramount importance to you. You are free in your
____expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual
experiences and partners, provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn
you on. You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating,
otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship. You
require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're being
appreciated. "You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know
that you're being appreciated ".


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Does your name begin with: M
You may appear innocent, unassuming and shy; but we know that
Appearances can lie. When it comes to sex, you are no novice but
something of a skilled technician. You can easily go to extremes,
though, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole
idea of love. You can be highly critical of you mate, seeking perfection
in both of you. It is not easy to find someone who can meet your
standards. You have difficulty expressing emotions and drawing close to
lovers. You are often selfish, thinking you are always right no matter
what. You never give in. Winning is your prime
desire- at any cost. You often forget friends and family and you live
for the moment.


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Does your name begin with: N
You are emotional and intense. When involved in a relationship, you
Throw your entire being into it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds
barred. You are all-consuming and crave someone who is equally
passionate and intense.
You believe in total freedom. You are willing to try anything and
everything. Your supply of energy is inexhaustible. You want to be
pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You also enjoy mothering your
mate. You often have the greatest love affairs all by yourself, in your
head. You are very imaginative.




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Does your name begin with: O
You are very interested in fun activities yet secretive and shy about
your desires. You can re-channel much of your energy into making money
and/or seeking we. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. Youyour mate. Love is serious business; thus you demand intensity,
diversity and is willing to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your
passions turn to possessiveness, which must be kept in check.


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Does your name begin with: P
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of
Doing anything that might harm your image or Reputation. Appearances
count.
Therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You also require an
intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your
enemy...a good fight stimulates those vibes. You are relatively free of
hang- ups.You are willing to experiment and try new ways of doing
things.You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a
good deal of physical gratification.


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Does your name begin with: Q
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous
physical energy. It is not easy for a partner to keep up with you. You
are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people because of
their ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and
conversation to turn you on and keep you going.


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Does your name begin with: R
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual. You need someone who
can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal-the smarter
the better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a
great body.
However, physical attractiveness is not very important to you. You have
to be proved to be worthy for a partner. You have a need to prove
yourself the best. You want feedback on your performance. You are open,
stimulating & romantic.


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Does your name begin with: S   just like me!
For you, it is pleasure before business. You can be romantically
idealistic to a fault and is capable of much sensuality. But you never
loose control of your emotions. Once you make the commitment you stick
like glue. You could get jealous and possessive. You tend to be very
selfish often regarding yourself as the only human being on the planet..
You like being the centre of attention. You are very caring sensitive,
private & sometimes very passive. Turned on by soft lights, romantic
thoughts. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You
know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role, or any game,
and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have
the patience to wait for the rightperson to come along. You are very
generous & giving, often selfless.
You are kind nature & sweet which is found to be attractive by many. You
are a good friend.


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Does your name begin with: T
You are very sensitive, private & sometimes very passive. You like
someone who takes the lead. You get turned on by music, soft lights &
romantic thoughts. You fantasize & tend to fall in & out of love soon.
When in love you are romantic, idealistic, mushy & extremely. You enjoy
having your senses & your feelings stimulated, titillated & teased. You
are a great flirt. You can make your relationships fit your dreams, all
in your own head. Once you put your mind to something you manage to
stand by it and see your dreams through. You aren't very good at
expressing your feelings. You like things your own way. You do not like
change, you like to hold on to things. This may not always be good
because if given an opportunity things may develop into great things.
You work your way to the top. Attention must be given to what others say
because even though you don't want to hear it their advice may turn out
to save your life. !


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Does your name begin with: U
You are enthusiastic & at your happiest when in love. When not in love
you're in love with love and always looking for someone to adore. You
see romance as challenge. You are a roamer & needs adventure, excitement
freedom. You enjoy giving gifts & looking good. You are willing to put
others feelings above yours.


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Does your name begin with: V
You are individualistic & you need freedom, space & excitement. You wait
till you know someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone
means psyching her/him out. You feel a need to get into his/her head to
see what makes him tick. You are attracted to eccentric types. You
believe that age is no barrier. You are good at responding to danger,
fear & suspense.


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Does your name begin with: W
You are very proud, determined & refuses to take no for an answer when
it come to love. Your ego is at stake all the time. You are romantic,
idealistic, often in love with love itself, not seeing your partner for
who she or he really is. You feel deeply about love & tends to throw all
of your self into a relationship. Nothing is too good for your lover.
You like playing love games.


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Does your name begin with: X
You need constant stimulation because you get bored quickly. You can
handle more than 1 relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off
your mind.
You can do 2 things at once. You are very talented.


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Does your name begin with: Y
You are sensual & very independent. If you can't have it your way, you
will
forget the whole thing. You want to control your relationships which
doesn't
work out too well. You respond to physical stimulation. However if you
can
make money you will give up the pleasures of the flesh for the moment.
You
have a need to prove yourself the best. You want feedback on your
performance. You are open, stimulating & romantic.


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Does your name begin with: Z
You are very romantic but show feels that to love means to suffer. You
wind
up serving your mate & attracting people who have unusual trouble. You
see
yourself as a lover's saviour.

Did you like this blog or was it a complete waste of your precious myspace time???  Cause I dont really care since you came anyway!! HA!

You all probably know how passionate I am about make-up....

So this blog right here, is for the love of MASCARA....

Guys you can run away right now if you wanna!

"Men are like mascara, they run at the slightest display of emotion. "
Kabir Bedi

 ANYWAYS....

Mascara is the finishing touch of most glamour make-ups... It gives your eyes edge! Makes them more feminine, more attractive.... When you wanna seduce a man, they help as you bat your lashes made insanely long by your latest tool...

BUT

There are things you should never do with your mascara... You have to respect your mascara!!! And I will help ya and tell ya what 2do.....OK?

1-PUTTING TOO MUCH ON:  You dont have to apply 50 times over and over the mascara! Its just gonna look clumpy and fake, completly goin against its purpose! One layer of mascara should be enough... Two if you want extra glam effect. And thats it!

2-LENDING TO A FRIEND:  "Gurl, you can borrow my mascara, I dont have any infections." Xcuse me? Never do that: its against hygiene. She might not have anything that bothers her but it might do a hell lot on you! Remember you eyes are very sensitive... It's better to buy individual brushes that you throw away: you dip it in the tube once, though. No double dip!

3-PUMPING THE MASCARA IN THE TUBE:  That doesn't help at all... It makes your mascara dry faster by letting a lot of air in the tube!  Another thing, the product will all get at the opening of the tube puttin an excess of product on the brush. 

4-CLEANING THE APPLICATOR: You should never clean the mascara brush as you can leave residue of paper towel or kleenex on it that will lead to potential infections... Just let it be

5-KEEPIN THE MASCARA:  I dont care if you dont use it a lot... The life of a mascara is 3 months. As soon as it opens you should count the 3 months. There are little preservatives in your mascara that will help you not get infections, but after 3 months, dont count on them. Did I say 3 months????

My Favorite Mascaras!!!!

1- Dont wanna spend a lot of money? Want a mascara for everyday use?

Maybelline Great Lash is great. I has been used by Make-up Artist forever. I love the Blackest Black one....

2-Its a little more expensive but oh so worth every application!

Lancome Flextencil: Great if you dont have a lot of lashes or if they are too straight.

3-Pat Mc Grath's fetish mascara (read an article on it): Mascara LashExact, de CoverGirl

4-And of course... MAC mascaras are the bomb! I use Zoom Lash and I love it....

Let me just add: I declare Dita Von Teese one of my new fashion and make-up Icon! She is way too fabulous. Bye Bye Marylin Manson....

 This blog started from an article I read in this french magazine...

Ya... I know its cheezy...

Yes... Still bored at work. And Yes Kayode I know its not friday yet!

I will probably post it on my page, but in the mean time, its a blog!

Thousands of people search on Google everyday...do you ever do random searches just to see?

February being the month of Black History, I wanted to do a little search on the most perogative word used against us: niggar

I was appalled at what came up! As I was getting more and more disgusted by the images that came up, I found this shit:

National Socialist Movement

"The NSM is a strictly legal pro-white organization.
We do not endorse or encourage any illegal activity."

One of the worst site I ever came about...

They glorify act of violence towards blacks, jews, asians...

i.e.: "Student Confirms Nigger Kills:
One angry white kid solves his high school nigger problems with full-auto fun!"

As I was browsing through their page full of hatred towards jews and other minorities, I came upon this picture...

They have a segment on their page called Coon Humor. Personnally, I dont think its funny...

Click right here: http://www.nukeisrael.com/index2b.htm

I want you to check out their page and maybe open your eyes. I am not hating on white people. I just want to show you how ignorant some people and their racist psychology. Hitler is still adored and we are not helping to change the way these people view us!

Their topics:

Nigger-Bonics translation guide:Now finally understand chimp talk!
Nigger Job application: Just for the apes, a funny race-normed form.
Nigger owners manual: What every new slave owner needs to know.
Recommendation Letter from Slave Bubba: We owned our own nigger!
East LA Math Exam: This test actually given by a former LA math teacher.
Extreme Darkie image gallery: Whiteman- can you handle it?
Extreme Darkie image gallery Pt. 2 It just keeps getting better!
Nigger Names: Just how many ways can you say nigger?
Don't forget our Nigger Jokes Page!

PEOPLE WE KINDA ASKED FOR IT!

They are laughing at the way we represent ourselves in the media, in our music and in our language!!! Dont you think its time for a change??

Flavor of love to me is the perfect exemple. Ya it might be fun to watch but do you realize the impact it has on our youth? just think about it, really....

I am beautiful and proud to be who I am. I made mistakes in the past and I assume them. I wish I was told different! I wish I wouldve known better. I wish ALL black women know in their heart what they are truly worth. You are better then just a voluptuous body or a beautiful voice or whateva. You are a women of the Earth. Better late then never! It is never too late to discover who you truly are.

I love you all. Black White and every shades in between...

I just had to let that frustration out!

This is a reference for those who are interrested in make-up, but dont know where to start!  Once you get the basics, make-up can be really fun!
If u have any question, comments or hatin (!),
just leave a comment...Holla!

Make up Tip:  Just like your clothes, lighter colors make things come out and look bigger and darker colors make things appear in the shadows, appear smaller. Shimmery will attract attention (especially if you have wrinkled) and do the same as light colors and matte will make things appear more even. (For me, shine=more glam and matte=more class... Both are good!!!)

-Almond eyes-
Beautiful shape; no need for altering. All eye shapes are corrected to look like this one.  It is the easiest to "style" as you can use whatever technique you want! Dont get a big head now... If u exagerate, you will look like a drag queen!

    -Bulging eyes-
The trick here is to elongate the eye so it will look less puffy. These eyes look lke they protruding from the head so by using dark matte shadows wherever it's bulging, it will make them look smaller. If you use shimmer, it will not help!  Extend eyeliner along the lashes going from the inner corner to the outer corner. If you prefer use a dark eye pencil in the inner lid rim, but never use the pencil under lower lashes: it will accentuate the bulging of the eye. For the finishing touch, try to put more mascara towards the outer lashes and  use very little or no mascara on lower lashes.

   
    -Down Turned eyes-
Those eyes are lightly turned down at the outer sides and slightly wider apart.  You should start with the eyeliner to visually lift the outer corners of your eyes. Do not exagerate the line, for it might look messy!! Apply more of the mascara towards the outer lashes; you can even add fake eyelashes for a more glamourous effect! Shadows should be applied "going up" towards the tip of your eyebrows; none at the bottom as it will accentuate your down-turned eyes.
 
 
  -Deep Set eyes-
If your mobile lid is smaller compared to area below the brow, remember that less is best.  A light color needs to be used on the mobile lid to make it look larger and a deeper color on the socket line, blended upwards. The light color will help  bring your eye forward.  

 
  -Droopy eyes-
Usually associated with aged skin's loss of elasticity, this eye shape needs matte colors, always blended well and medium to dark colors. Use a dark matte shadow where your lid begins to droop extending to the outer half of lid.  Line from the inner top edge to pupil of your eye. Be careful that you do not take eyeliner to the end of the eye, as this will emphasize the droopiness. Use mascara only on top to bring the eyes up.

-Mature eyes-
If you would like to apply a contour color this is a good time to use a matte creame-based shadow because it is very difficult to apply a powder coloration on less than supple skin.  Apply eyeliner along the lash line with the line growing a bit thicker toward the outer part of the eye. It is very important with a mature eye to blend correctly. A large sponge brush will be easier to handle and will blend colorations smoothly, especially if you have difficulty with your vision. If  you want you can add a nice finishing touch with mascara; but dont overdue it as it will make the eyes look "heavy"  

-Vanishing Lids-
Mostly asians will have this eye shape.  The idea is to create a crease; concentrate deep, darker, neutral tones just above the crease. When applying color feather lightly towards the brow to make sure the look stays naural. Blend Blend Blend!!! Your eyeline should be a very thin line on the top lid.  Curl lashes to help open up the eye and apply mascara to the top lashes only (use fake eyelashes if you dont have much)

-Wide-Set Eyes vs Close-Set Eyes-
A well balanced distance between 2 eyes should have the lenght of one eye in the middle. The idea here is to use shadow as a tool to give an illusion on the placement of the eyes.  If you have wide set eyes, place a medium or dark shadow near the eyes' inner corners continuing out toward the temples. Concentrate the mascara in the center of the lid. For close-set eyes, extend a medium shade on outer half of the eyelid towards hairline and blend well. Use a hilighting collar at the inner corner of the eyes and apply mascara towards the outer corners.

2-BUT WHAT COLOR IS BEST FOR MY EYES!!!!!! Best color for blue eyes - Orange/brown and earthy colors. Best color for brown eyes - Blue and pastel colors. Best color for hazel eyes - Purple/light pink and pastel colors. Best color for green eyes - Red and earthy colors.


1-BUT , wait a minute...
MY EYEBROWS???!!!!


Follow these maps to help you out.
 
Remember...
1. The general rule is that your eyebrow should start with a straight vertical line from the eye's inner corner straight up to the brow.   2. The arch of the brow should begin as seen in the illustration, at the outside edge of the iris of your eye. The arch helps to lift and open up your eyes.   3. The outside corner of your eye is where you want your eyebrow to stop as seen in the illustration. If your eyebrows grow past that point, it tends to make your eyes go down.
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