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SLEEPING WITH A D-MAN

Imagine having the power of the Gods at your fingertips, but all you want is one man to love you? Would you use your powers to get the love that you believe you deserve? One woman will try in "Sleeping with a D-Man: An epic supernatural tale of forbidden love, conspiracy and sacrifice.  

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Last Updated: 1/20/2008

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Tuesday, January 27, 2009 

Current mood:  adventurous

Hosted By:
220 Communications -Second 2 None

When:
Friday, March 27, 2009

Where:
Ven Sherrod Gallery
1906 South Halsted
Chicago
60608

Description:
For the second year we feature a number of music and spoken word artists performing . A night of cultur, entertainment and fun. Featuring Kalimba master and jazz musician Lennox Mayes Jr., Poets including Mel Rob, Sandria Washington and many more. Prizes, refreshments and a great atmosphere..be there

Click Here To View Event
Monday, November 24, 2008 

Current mood:  giggly
Category: Writing and Poetry
Man Kills Self Before Shooting Wife and Daughter
 
This one I caught in the SGV Tribune the other day and called the Editorial Room and asked who wrote this.  It took two or three readings before the editor realized that what he was reading was impossible!!!  They put in a correction the next day.  
 


I just couldn't help but sending this along. Too funny.  
 
Something Went Wrong in Jet Crash, Expert Says
 
      No, really? Ya think?
 
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Police Begin Campaign to Run Down Jaywalkers
 
       Now that's taking things a bit far!
 
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Panda Mating Fails; Veterinarian Takes Over 
 
       What a guy!  
 
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Miners Refuse to Work after Death
 
 No-good-for-nothing' lazy so-and-so's!
 
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Juvenile Court to Try Shooting Defendant 
 
See if that works any better than a fair trial!
 
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War Dims Hope for Peace 
 
 I can see where it might have that effect!
 
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 If Strike Isn't Settled Quickly, It May Last Awhile
 
   Ya think?!
 
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Cold Wave Linked to Temperatures 
 
     Who would have thought!
 
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Enfield London  ) Couple Slain; Police Suspect Homicide  
 
They may be on to something!
 
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Red Tape Holds Up New Bridges 
 
      You mean there's something stronger than duct tape? Oklahoma's new construction program! 
 
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Man Struck By Lightning: Faces Battery Charge 
 
     He probably IS the battery charge!
 
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Astronaut Takes Blame for Gas in Spacecraft 
 
That's what he gets for eating those beans!
 
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Kids Make Nutritious Snacks 
 
       Do they taste like chicken?****************************************
 
   Local  High School Dropouts Cut in Half 
 
       Chainsaw Massacre all over again!
 
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Hospitals are Sued by 7 Foot Doctors 
 
       Boy, are they tall!
 
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And the winner is.... 
 
Typhoon Rips Through Cemetery; Hundreds Dead 
 
     Did I read that right?
 
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Currently reading:
The Blue Book of Grammar and Punctuation: An Easy-to-Use Guide with Clear Rules, Real-World Examples, and Reproducible Quizzes
By Jane Straus
Saturday, February 09, 2008 

Current mood:  bouncy
Category: Jobs, Work, Careers

NOTICE:



I hope you are all taking advantange of the myspace classifieds service.  It's free, easy and offers yet one more venue to showcase your products.

Click on the link below and see a sample:


Who's been sleeping in your bed?

In the beginning...

Extremely tall, muscular and handsome "Sons of God" searched for "Daughters of Men" to make wives of all they chose.

They wanted Semite women of royal blood to prevent the birth of the Son of Man. The "Sons of God" promised riches, supernatural powers and all the 'apples' a woman could eat.

They almost succeeded but then came the Great floods...And for them that was the end---

-- Or was it?  

Find out the rest in the urban fantasy Sleeping With A D-Man by Mel Hopkins.

"You pray Mr. Right is Heaven sent but sometimes you end up ..."
Sleeping With A D-Man: An epic supernatural tale of forbidden love, conspiracy and sacrifice. Available at www.melhopkins.com
Tuesday, January 22, 2008 

Current mood:  artistic
Category: Jobs, Work, Careers

FILM MAKERS: Directors, Producers, Videographers, Screenwriters, Animators, Playwrights~


In honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Celebration - I would like to begin a networking series The LeadStory "Meet and Greet". 

Over the next several Mondays I will introduce you to some of The Literati from different fields that I know personally and/or have met here through myspace.  Without further ado, introducing the Filmmakers~


Chickspirit:  "Live Revolutionary"

Not only is the creator of Chickspirit inspirational, she is hella talented behind and in front of the camera lens. Whereas some in Hollywood are called triple threats, she is talented squared!

Check out this awesome Filmmaker's work at The Timer Game  Web series  San Diego, CA

Note: Authors,musicians et al,  if you are looking for another way to visually promote your work and stimulate interest in your novel – consider a short film to introduce your characters and their story..


Stuck in the 80s ,Burbank, CA  "Acta Non Verba"
Writer/Producer   Film – Production- Producer



Marshall Johnson, JrMitchellville, MD -  "Whatever you do, big or small, do it well or don't do it at all!"
Producer- Director - Editor - Videographer



John,    Alhambra, CA "Don't forget to check out my blog
Animator Extraordinaire skilled in  2D and 3D art, sketching and computer 3D modeling and animation.


 

"What Black Men Think",    Washington, DC "It's not just a movie, it's a movement."  
Janks Morton, Director / Producer / Editor



Muse SickWashington., D.C. "He's got infinite possibilities I can see them now. If he chooses well, then nothing can tear him down."
Screenwriter



Ayani (Griot~Playwright),
Georgia,  "Wordz drip like honey from my lips to heal your soul..."
an accomplished poet and playwright, as well as digital storyteller.



Shannon Holmes, North Carolina "When you're an original, prepared to be copied! With that said, I'm often imitated, but never duplicated, didn't know being me could be so complicated.

Film - Production - Producer



Hip Hoppits  San Diego, CA "Hip Hop, Don't Stop!!!"

Educational Film –Production – Producer


Next Week- The LeadStory Meet and Greet Media: Television/ Radio/Internet Broadcast Talk Show Hosts/Magazine Publishers.


Currently watching:
Hip Hoppits
Release date: 13 August, 2007
Tuesday, December 18, 2007 

Current mood:  confident
Category: Movies, TV, Celebrities
I happened upon this article and I thought what great tips for the fashion-challenged man who has to appear in public for  a speaking engagement or appear a television news segment.  

... Remember,  we only get one chance to make a good first impression



Men's Fashion - 6 Important Men's Fashion Rules to Live By

From Daniel Billett,
Your Guide to Men's Fashion / Grooming.

Every man has asked themselves about matching their socks with their trousers and other assorted questions at some point in their lives. Here I have listed six important men's fashion rules to live by which should at least clear up some confusion about a few things.

  1. Always match your belt with your shoes. This is a good rule to follow and it keeps things simple. It's best to stay with traditional colors such a black, dark brown or a rich tan. Other colors will be difficult to match, and generally speaking, should be avoided. If you wear sneakers every day that probably means you are wearing jeans in which case I suggest trying a belt made of fabric or something equally as casual, but please avoid dress belts with jeans and sneakers. If you wear suspenders, I am compelled to ask you why, but I digress. Just don't wear a belt and suspenders together, it's one or the other.

  2. Matching Ties and Shirts. For while the solid-colored shirt with a tie of the same (or slightly-off) color was seen everywhere. This is now a somewhat dated look. Try mixing things up a little and experiment with colors. Ties are great way to express yourself, but keeping it tasteful is your best bet. You can't go wrong with diagonal stripes, modern polka-dots, plaids and subtle patterns. Just make sure your tie compliments your shirt, suit, sweater or what ever you will be wearing it with. Novelty ties are best avoided since the novelty is short lived.

    Note: Ties should be tied in whatever style most strikes your fancy. You should know that there are many different ways to knot your tie, and different knots say different things. I prefer the Windsor or the four-in-hand, but I do suggest that you explore a little just for kicks. As for clip on ties--just say no.

  3. Pleats vs. Flat-Front. Why so many men have avoided flat-front trousers has always been a mystery to me. Flat-front trousers look better than pleated pants most of the time. Pleats make you look less slim. I have heard guys wear pleats because it's more comfortable or because flat-fronts are more for athletic bodies. Truth is most men can wear a flat-front trouser. If you want more room then buy them a little big and have them brought in at the waist. This can be done at the store where you buy your clothes or by an independent tailor. And lastly, flat-font trousers are much more fashionable.

  4. Socks. The more official rule on socks is that they should match the color of your pants, though preferably not the exact same shade unless, of course, you are wearing black in which case it's okay. However, I personally like to wear socks with patterns, such as stripes in various colors. But I do try to match my socks with my pants and shoes. To quote Glenn O'Brien from GQ magazine, ". . .you will ultimately realize that beyond the valley of rules rises the mountain of aesthetics, the peak of which (if there is one) is always shrouded in beautiful clouds of various hues, many of them resembling certain of my more unusually hued socks."

    Note: Although it should be obvious, white socks should be reserved for the gym.

  5. Watches are the single most important accessory a man can own. I really suggest investing in one good watch that suits your lifestyle and taste. However, if you are someone who likes to own more than one watch, wear the appropriate timepiece for your outfit: black band with black shoes and belt; brown band with brown shoes and belt; and silver band for either. See my Men's Watch Guide for more in depth advice.

  6. Eyeglasses are one of the few ways you can really express yourself. I have worn glasses for many years and I love having a few pair in different styles. They don't have to just serve a function, but can enhance your overall look. Do your best to find a pair of glasses that not only compliments the shape of your face, but also expresses your personality. Ask people who wear glasses for a place where you can get good advice about what shape and style looks best for your face shape and features.
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Currently listening:
This Christmas-Songs from the Motion Picture
By Original Soundtrack
Release date: 20 November, 2007
Thursday, October 18, 2007 

Current mood:  busy
Category: Blogging
GUIDE...

If you are xml - atom- rss feed challenged as I am but wish to subscribe to your favorite blogs outside of myspace, Mozilla Firefox has a feature that allows you to subscribe to any blog...

It's called "subcribe to this page" option and you can find it in the bookmarks pull-down tab.

If you have a Yahoo page or  have Yahoo!  (ATT & SBC) as your ISP (Internet Service Provider) you will be able to save the blog feed right to your homepage.

If you  have a gmail account, you can even subscribe to google homepage or google reader -- don't forget that blogspot (blogger) is own by gmail now.  

 If you use Mozilla Firefox Browser here's some  information to help you subscribe to your favorite blogs

hint:

BEHIND THE HEADLINES
http://melhopkins.info/rss2.aspx

MEL'S AMAZON CONNECT
http://www.amazon.com/gp/blog/A38ANI9D8I7YH/rss.xml


KITCHENTALKNEWS
http://kitchentalknews.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default?alt=rss
http://www.feedblitz.com/f/f.fbz?rss=135614

Subscribe to the feed using:

Instead of displaying a preview of the feed when you view one, you can have the feed be opened directly in a feed reader by selecting a reader from the  list of available readers.  You can choose to use an application on your computer to subscribe to feeds by clicking the Choose Application...button and finding the application on your computer. 

Alternately, you can choose to automatically subscribe to feeds by saving them as Live Bookmarks. To choose a subscription method, simply select it from the list.


Feeds Options
Preferences

Feeds are specially formatted documents which summarize the content of web sites.  For example, a feed might summarize the latest news headlines from a news site or the latest posts on a blog.  You can view the content of feeds in  Firefox, create Live Bookmarks for them, or add them to a feed reader on your computer or on the Web.  The options  preferences in this pane determine what  Firefox does when you view a feed.

Show me a preview and ask me which Feed Reader to use

When you view a feed within Firefox, you will be shown a preview of its contents. With this option preference selected, you are always given a choice of what you would like to use to subscribe to the feed at the top of the preview page.

Currently reading:
Syndicating Web Sites with RSS Feeds For Dummies ®
By Ellen Finkelstein
Release date: 08 April, 2005
Monday, October 08, 2007 

Current mood:  accomplished
Category: Jobs, Work, Careers



That's right booksellers we are entering into the holiday season -

I'm sure you've already seen the store displays set up for Halloween.  Next it will be Thanksgiving, Christmas, Chanukah, Boxing Day and New Year's Day!

You can take advantage of  the holiday excitement and do a little promotion for yourself too!

Start by sending out mailers to remind your customers that books make great Christmas Stocking Stuffers!

HALLOWEENAlong with candy treats include promotional bookmarks, post cards, stickers in every Halloween "trick or treat" bag too!   Dress your children up as characters from your book - or even better help out a parent who may not be able to afford a halloween costume and dress their children up as YOUR book for Halloween! You can even be a good neighbor and chaperone the kiddies for the evening. 

THANKSGIVING/BLACK FRIDAY - Remember when shoppers lined up really early outside Toys R US, Best Buy and other retailers to buy must-have Christmas gifts like such as Tickle Me Elmo X?   As a bookseller you should be out there too but instead, sel your publications to the captive audience..Be creative - stage an inpromptu book reading, book signing or offer specially priced books already gift wrapped...If you want to get really creative ask about 30 folks to pose for a picture holding your book and use as a promotional tool.

CHRISTMAS EVE - Individually gift wrap your book - go to the mall, outlets and strip malls and sell to  those last minute gift shoppers.  Set up a hot chocolate kiosk and sell good will, cheer and books.

Finally, check with your local strip mall leasing agent to  find out if you can lease empty store space for two months. It's a win-win, the strip mall will appear as if there's full occupancy and you will be in a high traffic area. 

To defray the cost of the sublet partner up with other booksellers in your area.  Set up a like flea market during the holiday shopping months...

If you are really ambitious hire a photographer and a Santa claus - You will drive traffic to the spot and offer an alternative to the long Santa Claus line at the mall.

HAPPY BOOKSELLING!!!
~Mel Hopkins, The LeadStory

Currently reading:
The Princessa : Machiavelli for Women
By Harriet Rubin
Release date: 09 March, 1998
Saturday, October 06, 2007 

Current mood:  accomplished
Category: Jobs, Work, Careers

How to write a tip sheet
By Sandra Beckwith

A tip sheet is a news release that offers advice or tips in a bulleted or numbered format. It's one of the hardest working and most useful tactics available for generating publicity. Use a tip sheet to generate short column notes in a newspaper or magazine or to interest a reporter, editor or producer in a feature article or talk show interview on the tip sheet topic.

Here's how to create an effective tip sheet:

  1. Use a press release format. The biggest difference between a tip sheet and a traditional press release is that the body of the tip sheet will include your tips or advice in a numbered or bulleted format.
     
  2. Start with a headline that mimics those on magazine covers – "5 ways to lose weight before June" or "Top 7 mistakes shoppers make." Here's an example from a tip sheet promoting a women's health and nutrition book to newspaper living sections:
    Expert offers 10 nutrition tips for New Year's resolutions
     
  3. Write your first paragraph so it explains why the tips are necessary. The first paragraph and introductory text for the nutrition tip sheet was:

    As any health club owner knows, "taking better care of myself" tops New Year's resolution lists each year. Yet, many people – particularly women – don't know exactly what it means to take better care of themselves.
     
  4. Present a quotation in the second paragraph. This should provide more detail about why the tip sheet is necessary and establish the subject's credentials. Here's the second paragraph in the New Year's resolution tip sheet:

    "Traditionally, women have been caretakers of others in their lives – friends, family, neighbors, coworkers," explains Susan Calvert Finn, PhD, RD, FADA, the architect of the American Dietetic Association's Nutrition & Healthy Campaign for Women. "More and more busy women are realizing, however, that before they can adequately care for others, they must first care for themselves. It is clear that they must take charge of their own health. Nobody is going to do it for them."
     
  5. Set up your tips with a sentence – "Here are Smith's tips for saving money at the supermarket" – or a short paragraph, as we have here:

    Dr. Finn's new book, The American Dietetic Association Guide to Women's Nutrition for Healthy Living, provides women of all ages with nutrition information they can use immediately to eat right, maintain their health and prevent disease. Here are her top 10 suggestions from the book for women who need a healthier lifestyle this year:
     
  6. Then list your tips with bullets or numbers. When tips are listed this way, rather than in traditional paragraphs, editors can quickly scan them to see if they would be useful to readers – or not. Make sure you write your tips in an active voice with strong verbs. And make sure they provide advice, not reasons to do something or product features. Here are a few of the tips in Finn's release so you can get a sense of how this works:

    Make an appointment with a registered dietitian (RD) for a nutritional checkup. Call the American Dietetic Association at 800-366-1655 to locate an RD near you.

    Switch your thinking from "ideal" weight to "healthy" weight. Remember, you are unique. Your healthy weight may differ from your neighbor's – even if she is your height and age – because of other variables such as genetics, fitness level and overall health.

    Look for "aerobic opportunities" every day. Park farther out in the lot at the mall. Take a brief walk at lunch or dinner. Think of the stairs as your friend.
     
  7. Finally, add the concluding boilerplate paragraph that you put on most press releases. Here's the paragraph for the nutrition book:

    The American Dietetic Association Guide to Women's Nutrition for Healthy Living,
    published by Perigee Books, is available in bookstores nationwide for $14. Book proceeds benefit nutrition research by the ADA, a national organization of 70,000 nutrition professionals, 98 percent of whom are women.

    Look for ways to include tip sheets in your publicity plan; you'll soon see how easily they generate results.

Sandra Beckwith, the author of Streetwise Complete Publicity Plans: How to Create Publicity That Will Spark Media Exposure and Excitement, teaches the online "Book Buzz" class for Freelance Success. Learn more at www.sandrabeckwith.com

 
Sign up for Sandra Beckwith's free book publicity e-zine at
http://www.buildbookbuzz.com/index.htm

Currently reading:
Complete Publicity Plans: How to Create Publicity That Will Spark Media Exposure and Excitement (Adams Streetwise Series)
By Sandra L. Beckwith
Release date: April, 2003
Monday, October 01, 2007 

Current mood:  happy
Category: Jobs, Work, Careers
An innovative  promotional  tool for selling especially  for inspirational and educational books such as  "Gumbo for the Soul Anthology" would be a

Library/ Non Profit Organization Drop Ship Program.  

A book lover, corporate sponsor and/or philanthropist can order your book(s) and donate it to a public library (especially a public library with limited funds), a neighborhood youth center or even your church library ...
Currently reading:
Gumbo For The Soul: The Recipe For Literacy In The Black Community
By Beverly Black Johnson
Release date: 03 April, 2007
Sunday, September 30, 2007 

Current mood:  accomplished
Category: Jobs, Work, Careers
Whenever anyone asks me what I do, the first thing I have to determine is what does this person want from me?   

Of course, before  I let anyone ask me that question,  I find out as much as I can about them...I focus on other people.

As a salesperson, you  learn its NOT about you and what you have for sale...

A saleperson knows that he or she is business to make a client's/customer's life
 
Easier
Enjoyable,
Affordable,
Fill in the blank

You are selling emotional benefits...your product or service will make your client/customer smarter, popular, appealing, safer and the best one richer...

So with that in mind,  let's treat this blog as a cyber networking social  - 

I picked you all to network with because I already know you are THE LITERATI!!!

You either/or/and:
Sell books,
Review books ,
Promote books,
Write books,
Love books
Could write a book,
Are writing a book
maybe you even Collect books

but there is one thing,  other people don't know you  here and we should all know each other..
So instead of promoting your book,  PLEASE DON'T PROMOTE YOUR BOOK,

Tell us  WHAT you do, HOW what you do will BENEFIT me and my myspace friends - SELL THE SIZZLE...

If you  are a published author tell me how I will benefit from reading your book..

Ex: When you read Sleeping With a D-Man you will be transported to a time much like the 21st century - EXCEPT you will see and experience all the magic that is hidden in plain sight.

If you are a literary consulting business  or service;  if you are a publisher, share with us the benefit of doing business with you... I'll go first.

Hi, My name is Mel Hopkins. 

I help writers, authors and publishers get national, regional and local exposure while building a buzz about their publications using every media outlet available.  


YOUR TURN...
Currently reading:
How to Win Friends & Influence People
By Dale Carnegie
Release date: 01 October, 1998