i admit it. i dont know why but they do. a lot of my guy friends are huge assholes and they all get fucked on a regular basis, and usually by pretty girls. i go to their houses and there a beautiful girls who are dumb as shit hanging around knowing by the end of the night they will sleep with the asshole and he wont call the next day. its usually a good laugh to me when i try to talk to these girls too, they have nothing going on upstairs and talk about how having the newest and coolest Iphone makes a guy sexy...

that i dont understand, knowing from the begging that a guy was an asshole and still going after him. ive dated my fair share of assholes in the past but the ones i dated were much worse, they were the type of assholes who act like nice guys, who act like they care and feed you lies and if they have good lies you fall for them and then get fucked over big time. once i realize that a guy is a lying asshole though, i drop him. i dont give a shit about how cool a guy is, i dont care how many people know him, or what my friends think, i dont try to fit into the latest scene and trends, and i dont give a shit what band he sings for and would prefer he wasent in a band, i go for guys who care for other peoples feelings as much as their own, any type of lying ususlly turns me off compleatly, and i am the kindof person who would go out of my way to help a friend in need because i care about other people as well and not just personal gain. just know there are lots of girls out there who feel the same as i do.

the trick to finding a nice girl is getting to know her a bit and seeing that she cares about other things other than the typical "cool" stuff and "cool" people. would she blow off a friend or be ashamed of them because they werent beautiful or popular? does she have other things to talk about other than the latest trends and hairstyles? does she try sleep with you on the first date? does she love to hear the latest gossip and get herself involved in drama when it really isint nessecary? if you guys really want a nice girl those are some of the red flags you should be cautious of.

for those guys out there who actually want relationships, and actually are capable of caring for someone other than themselves, just know something... the nice girls who make the best girlfriends arent the ones who chase assholes. dont you dare think you have to act like an asshole to get a girl. sure it seems true to me that assholes get more girls than nice guys, but if you act like an asshole you will attract a compleatly different kind of girl that you probably don't want. assholes may get the most girls, but are those really the kind of girls you want to date? the girls who are really worth having are worth waiting for, are worth searching for, and will probably make you happier.

just remember that there are nice girls out there to date, they just require different methods. to win over a nice girl you cant just look cool, or have cool friends, or join a band, you actually have to win them over and get to know them before they like you. nice girls usually take more work to impress, but once they see your personality or know you have things in common with them then they will like you.

i think assholes do get more girls, but trust me, they rarely get the pick of the litter. nicce guys may be alone longer before finding someone but the quality of person you will eventually find if you know what to look for is way better than any asshole could ever get. keep your hopes up and don't be discouraged by the assholes with girls throwing themselves at them.

but if all u want is loose hot girls throwing themselves at you, by all means join a band and treat everyone like shit, they will love it. but know u may never find a nice girl worth being with that will be loyal and caring.


:)

I offer you everything

Here I am

Right infront of you

Im holding your hand

And you still don’t see me

Ill give you anything

Do whatever you want

Just to make you happy

Do you want me here?

Do you want me to go away?

Would that make you happier?

Id skip lunch so I can buy you dinner

Id do anything to make you laugh

Id drive all nite to be there when you cry

Lie to me if it makes you feel better

Ill hold you when you still love her

Do you see me yet?

Hurt me! use me! break me!

I don’t care anymore!

Im still here for you

Hit me with your best shot

Ill come back for more

Stop everything just to be with you

And you will never see me

U will hold me for the day

And throw me away

For a girl who dosent notice you

Find a prettier face

someone with games

A girl you have to chase

And you will tell her you are lonely

And give her everything