Let's say your father wasn't there for the first 17 years of your life.
Your father decided that he didn't want anything to do with you left your mom to raise four kids on her own with the only help from your grandmother.
Let's say down the road, your grandmother dies when you're eight, and your mom had to take care of four kids
ALONE!Now, let's say that one of your own children, how can I put this, runs off with a 30 year old man at the age of 15 and blames you for all the shit she put HERSELF through and vows to hate you till the day you die.
On top of that, SHE'S FUCKING CRAZY, Schitzo, can change her persona at will to never be diagnosed as a crazy bitch.
Now, You're 17, you had a lot of things happen to you before this year.
You survived; poverty, a nervous breakdown, homelessness, depression, suicide, another home, high school, and now you're living with your loving mom again and all is well.
Oh how things are looking up!
Then that same father that wasn't there,
calls you.
You're surprised, like shockingly, not happy.
He tells you sweet little lies to get you on his side, you don't know if you should believe him or not.
But how do you know if he's lying? You haven't seen the man in 17 years.
How would you know?
So, you believe him for now and then he invites you to come to his home 15 hours away.
You're nervous, I can tell, but you have those hidden "I always wanted a Daddy" feelings inside you telling you to go.
But Mommy says you shouldn't get involved, you'll get your heart broken, but you promise her that you won't fall for his lies.
And so, you, you're beloved sister head of to daddy's home.
And behold surprises!
HE HAS HIS OWN LITTLE FAMILY!
Granted, only one of them is his, but he has a beautiful girlfriend with kids of her own.
AND A SISTER ON THE WAY!
How things are looking up!
Whatever.
Look, you get to see your family!
You haven't seen them...well, you never seen them, but you have family!
Then you hear all the wonderful things about your dad and all that jazz.
Wow, you really can't picture it, but hey, they know him better than you do.
You're every guess on him, was brutally knocked down by the family who knows him best.
After all, you don't know him that well.
So you meet cousins that are your age!
On your mom's side, you have no cousins at all, your mother was the only one to have children.
So how exciting it is to have cousins your age!
But they have nothing to do with your problems.
It's you and your dad.
He's been neglecting you by going to work, he can't help it, oh, he owns the place, he can, but won't.
So you've been with your dad's girlfriend who you like more than him and your granny, a very sweet woman.
Then dad comes and tells you, he has to go away for work, and you can't see him any longer, and is forced to go back home.
So you drive home with your dad and his work friend.
You say your goodbyes.
And he's gone.
For another three years.